constipation

my bowels will not move sometimes anywhere one to two days then sometimes my bowels will not move within a week then sometimes two weeks i have to take a very strong laxative because i strat feeling sick i head aches. then when my bowels finally moves i feel like i am going to pass out, my arm and hands go numb and weak, my legs hurts, my stomach hurts so bad it make me feel if i am going to have a heart attack and die, my skin gets cold and clamy, i get real hot but then i feel cold. one medical doctor asked me when my son was being delivered did the doctor make a incesion called episeotomy that doctors make when delivering a baby so that you will not tear badly. i do not know if i spelled the word right, but he said that could have damaged my bowels or colon please help me find the right solution to my pomblem or tell me what should i do and what kind of doctor to see. Thank you very much, plus i gain weight can not lose i know everything that i eat is still traped in my small, large intestines and colon i proably will die from toxicns in my body. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: [/url]