i wish there was some way that i wouldnt get upset about things and where i wouldnt get mad at little things i feel like its hurting anthony and my relationship like i throw a hairbrush at him for no reason like little things make me cry and i just dont know what i could do
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I'll tell you a funny - so you don't think you are going off your rocker - I was about 8 months pregnant with my first! My husband and I are walking - correction WADDLING - downt he mall! And a man shouts out to my husband! We walk over, they shake hands and my husband doesn't introduce me to this guy! so I feel the tears WELLING up, so I leave and I go into a store and inbetween the quilts and the sheets just start BALLING! My husband came running over and he was going "Honey whats a matter!? (id**t!)?" So I blubbered "you are embarrassed of me cuz I'm SOO,,oooo,,ooo FAT!" He's like "NOOOO I dind't know his name and I was embarrassed to ask!" This woman walked by and TUTTED at my husband and came over and carressed my arm! XD 8-| 8-| 8-| I have NO idea how my poor husband "SURVIVED" me being pregnant! I would cry CONSTANTLY! And the friggin nightmares!!!!! UNREAL! That poor guy rarely got a good nights sleep! Darn hormones!
Have a nurse explain to Anthony what is going on with you! It's a HARD thing for both of you - especially you - BUT he needs to know it's NOT him! OK? It's close kiddo REALLY close! So hang in there! You do realize I want to be beside the bed on the laptop, when you go in labour so I can be your "Cyber Coach!"? ;-) XD XD We should figure a way with having a synthesized voice of me shouting "DON'T PUSH!!" ;-) XD you know what would be funny? Having a picture of a laptop inbetween the girls!!!! LOL Big hugs honey!
Have a nurse explain to Anthony what is going on with you! It's a HARD thing for both of you - especially you - BUT he needs to know it's NOT him! OK? It's close kiddo REALLY close! So hang in there! You do realize I want to be beside the bed on the laptop, when you go in labour so I can be your "Cyber Coach!"? ;-) XD XD We should figure a way with having a synthesized voice of me shouting "DON'T PUSH!!" ;-) XD you know what would be funny? Having a picture of a laptop inbetween the girls!!!! LOL Big hugs honey!
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like he was goin to come tday but sent his sister kaylee to tell me he thought it would be better if he just doesnt come around wikk they are here so that i will not throw things and get mad and everything. like i dont know what to do now like when i wasnt cring we had fun but now i dont know and i cant wait to see them i dont think i will be able to take the pain if i do go into labor
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All women think they can't do it honey! And we do! Many I know have even used the words "not so bad actually" in the same sentence! So don't concentrate on that OK? And remember, even though it is better for babies to go natural - you DON'T receive an award for tollerating it without pain relief! They wont let you be in too much pain, just know it's been done since the beginning of time and it's over before you know it! You hear about horror stories, you don't hear about regular, fine, "not so bad actually" births!
Are you just as emotional with women, or do you think it's because you and Anthony are so close you are taking it out on him? Maybe you're worried about him staying around too heh?
Are you just as emotional with women, or do you think it's because you and Anthony are so close you are taking it out on him? Maybe you're worried about him staying around too heh?
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Im not emotional with womwen just him and family what are men i dont know why tho i do feel bad tho
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I think it's all about your uncertainty with them! You are worried about your dad and his age - plus his relationship with your mum, The orignal Anthony and what happened there, and now this new Anthony and what MIGHT happen! It's the unknown with Anthony! Will he hang around, how much will he take etc. It's hard! BUT ALL of us think this even about our husbands! It's just he uncertainty of the uknown! You don't know how labour is, you don't know how motherhood and coping is going to be, you don't know if you and Anthony are going to be! That is the million dollar question "What is tommorrow going to be like!?" and all I can say is "You don't know what tommorrow brings, BUT you just know that you have strength in yourself and in your children and you WILL get through it!" EVERY pregnant girl and woman out there has the EXACT same thoughts right now! BUT you have to make sure that the way you feel does not give you the right to not try and control those emotions and feelings OK? Because you are obviously frightened but some women have been known to continue with that and become verbally abusive and sometimes physically and emotionally abusive to the ones in their lives
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like we are talking now and i have a feeling we will be together for along time bc of how we are and we do love each other so that a good thing
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helo CAT i have been reading all your post and was wondering if you had your twins already. I also have some ID twins and they where born close to 35 weeks..... Please keep us updated
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not yet but im hopeing they will come soon like i just want to go home with anthony to are house and i want to be as far as i can be from the nurses and drs
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good luck and I am pretty sure you will be able to make it thru. So how is your family. Let us know when you have your twins.
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I think they don't want to upset you honey! Just remember they have to work through their own stuff in their own time! Doesn't take away that they love you and will be there for all 3 of you! How is the girls and you doing? Everything OK with Anthony!?
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cat so your last menstrual was on Nov or you got it on Dec but not the same flow........... Bambi you could help and answer this question.
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