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Sex Ed in this country is pretty timid. It seems to freak a lot of females out when their vulva changes in appearance. Sadly, many women end up thinking something is going terribly wrong with their genitalia, and even fear having a boyfriend who might think likewise. Ladies, they all change at puberty, some a little, some a lot. Some stay very prepubescent looking, some get very dark and pronounced. They are all awesome and nature has done a fine job. Perhaps moms should include this in their "talk" so ladies can get on with enjoying their genitals instead of worrying about them.
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im 15 and i just lost my virginity my left is bigger and discolor as well and my boyfriend never said anything about it and he is more experienced then i an i was very scared he would say something about it and now i see it is very normal dont worry about it if it gets to you to much you can always have it removed but why do that when its normal your beautiful just the way you are and i promise that is wont make the time you lose your virginity any different then without it
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-A concerned 14 year old
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I hate mine too and have always hated how very very dark purple the colour of my labia minora is.I always wondered why is it sooooo dark because Im white and well the only comparison I ever got were the porn magasines that my ex boyfriend had laying around. I commented on how the porn stars are all uniformly pink and have small labia down there. His reply was that no Real women look like that, that they photo shop the pictures, or the girls have surgery done on them and that cosmetic surgery on genitals is really common for both genders in that industry. Moral of that story don't compare yourself to fantasty genitals that almost all of them only acheive with surgery.
Also one side the left always hung out much lower. I had a minor surgery down there for other issues and he used the extra skin to sew me up, so now they are almost even and tucked up quite a bit.
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Just as the left and right side of the body isn't totally symmetrical such as one foot slightly bigger than the other or fingers slightly fatter than on the other hand on one breast smaller or a nipple more prominent than the other neither is the labia always the same, sometimes one inner or outer lip may be fatter or inner lip longer or a different colour or wrinkled it still doesn't mean your not normal because it's the little differences we have that makes us all unique.
Any guy that comments about it being different in a bad way doesn't deserve the honour of seeing it, you will find as you gr8 older that having a long labia can give a great deal of extra pleasure during foreplay and intercourse for both him and her.
Love yourself for the gift you have been given and never be ashamed of your body.
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