OKay, I am a virgin. I have large labia (major and minor) and they are not symmetrical. I am so embarrassed about them. I'm too scared to get waxed, I'm too scared to even go to the gyno. Mostly, I am too scared to have sex because I'm afraid that no matter how close I am with the guy or how long we've been together, he's going to take one look at me and run out of the room. Am I just paranoid? Or does it really not matter to men?
Also, side question, do guys prefer some pubic hair or all-shaved?
its just that i have a boyfriend and we've been talking about having sex, and these are my issues. And I am NOT going to talk about my large labia with him.
Also, side question, do guys prefer some pubic hair or all-shaved?
its just that i have a boyfriend and we've been talking about having sex, and these are my issues. And I am NOT going to talk about my large labia with him.
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here's a little secret, girls are generally far more concerned about their own bodies than any guy will ever notice. it's one small part of you and if he really likes you it won't bother him at all. chances are it probably doesn't even look bad, it's just everyone (even guys) have a tendency to obsess on what they perceive to be a flaw with their body and it becomes blown out of proportion in their mind. it wouldn't worry me at all. it's true there are some stupidly shallow guys out there but most of us aren't that bad. my girlfriend has had many similar concerns that didn't bother me in the slightest. in fact i loved many of the things she was worried about.
as to the shaving question, it comes down to personal preference. some guys prefer completely unshaven, some like completely shaven and some just like it "tidied" up a bit. my personalal preference is completely shaved but i don't dislike pubic hair. it really doesn't bother me much, i just like it smoothe.
how old are you? you are going to have to see a gyno sooner or later. trust me they won't be concerned in the slightest unless you have a problem. they've seen all sorts, yours won't be that unusual. i know of course it can be an awkward experience but for the sake of your own health you will have to go.
as to the shaving question, it comes down to personal preference. some guys prefer completely unshaven, some like completely shaven and some just like it "tidied" up a bit. my personalal preference is completely shaved but i don't dislike pubic hair. it really doesn't bother me much, i just like it smoothe.
how old are you? you are going to have to see a gyno sooner or later. trust me they won't be concerned in the slightest unless you have a problem. they've seen all sorts, yours won't be that unusual. i know of course it can be an awkward experience but for the sake of your own health you will have to go.
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I agree with oz ,
dont worry about the size of your labia, inner or outer,
there is no such thing as -normal- just variations.
any self respecting guy will have no problem with your anatomy.
if he does, is he the right person to be seeing or touching your private parts anyway?
again shaving is down to the individual, you do what you feel comfortable with for you.
the more comfortable you feel, the more confident you will be, and anything else won t matter, because you will handle it ok .
dont worry about the size of your labia, inner or outer,
there is no such thing as -normal- just variations.
any self respecting guy will have no problem with your anatomy.
if he does, is he the right person to be seeing or touching your private parts anyway?
again shaving is down to the individual, you do what you feel comfortable with for you.
the more comfortable you feel, the more confident you will be, and anything else won t matter, because you will handle it ok .
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I know this is a really old post but I thought I'd add to it since there isn't many responses and large labia seems to be a greater concern for a lot of females than it should be.
I am male and I much prefer large labia, it's way more fun, interesting and erotic than a vagina that looks plain.
When it comes to hair I am respectful enough to let the girl do what she likes but I do like a bit of hair on the pubic region and no hair on the vulva, mostly because I don't want a mouthful of hair when performing oral.
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I am a man & I Love Large Labia .
I Love cunnilingus , I like Sucking , licking , tugging , pulling & sucking on big lips & clit with my lips & tongue . I like to get wild down there when she is sitting on my face with her hands on my head . When she moves her hips , wiggles , twitches & bucks it turns me on more .
Cunnilingus is much more enjoyable with Large Labia .
Bert :-}
I Love cunnilingus , I like Sucking , licking , tugging , pulling & sucking on big lips & clit with my lips & tongue . I like to get wild down there when she is sitting on my face with her hands on my head . When she moves her hips , wiggles , twitches & bucks it turns me on more .
Cunnilingus is much more enjoyable with Large Labia .
Bert :-}
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My testicles are not symmetrical & I never thought that would be a problem , I Love giving cunnilingus , but one loose hair in my mouth takes away all the fun . Please remove all the hair around the labia , some hair in frint is OK , Trim it down down to a half inch long .
Thank You !!!
Bert :-}
Thank You !!!
Bert :-}
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I Love Large Labia & Clitoris !!!
I am a man & I Love giving cunnilingus !
But get waxed , when I get one loose hair in my mouth , it takes the fun out .
One Loose hairs can take all the fun out of the experience .
I like giving cunnilingus more than intercourse !
I never have intercourse with out cunnilingus first .
Large labia turn me on & make cunnilingus very enjoyable for me .
But about one side bigger than the other ???
I have one Testicle that is bigger than the other one & I never thought it was a bad thing .
I have always been proud of the bigger one on the left .
I am a man & I Love giving cunnilingus !
But get waxed , when I get one loose hair in my mouth , it takes the fun out .
One Loose hairs can take all the fun out of the experience .
I like giving cunnilingus more than intercourse !
I never have intercourse with out cunnilingus first .
Large labia turn me on & make cunnilingus very enjoyable for me .
But about one side bigger than the other ???
I have one Testicle that is bigger than the other one & I never thought it was a bad thing .
I have always been proud of the bigger one on the left .
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As a guy, I love eating p***y. Love all kinds. Really turned on by large labia (all the more to lick!). I want to assure you. . . there are many guys who enjoy labia, clits and so on. Go to your gyno. . . ask about this.
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