Do you take it as a compliment when a guy gives you a second look?

I guess I don't even mind the leering if the hands stay where they are supposed to be.

In our area, it is very possible that the 50 year old guy with no teeth, is actually a 35yo with no teeth. It is incredible what one can "see" around here. i even had this conversation with my therapist, and she agreed that she has had more trouble with people from this part of PA (Southwestern corner, south of Pittsburgh) than she has with people from metropolitan Pgh. hicks, rednecks, hillbillies, skinheads, and ghetto wannabes. we got 'em all folks! c'mon down to Marlboro country.