so me and my boyfriend have been dating since '06 and the sex had gone from all the time to next to nothing, we barely have sex and when we do it only last at least half an hour...he doesn't ejaculate which makes me feel as though when we do have sex its to shut me up. But there is more to the story, see he had been in a werid funk and asked me if we can do an open relationship...me being the person who wants to see him happy said yes. We made the rules...more like I made the rules and we tried it...but it sooned turned sour for me, the rules were only ONE female making it 3 people(me, him, and her) and I would have to get to know her and approve but later I find out he has more, then one and I tell him about it. he said fine he'll drop some...but he lied in my face. I later find out by a new friend of ours (one he "Met") that he had asked her to be Friends with benefits and she said did he ask me if it was alright and he said that I said "YES!" when in truth I was asleep!
Thankfully she asked me later and when I said no he didn't and that he was not be FWB with her since he was suppose to have one girl which I already approved of. she quickly apologized and said she wouldn't do anything (and she has kept her word and we have been good friends since)
But OH NO its not over yet...so I decided that I couldn't take this open relationship any longer and that I wanted only us and no one else he said okay. but I caught him lying AGAIN! I have saw countless chats on his FB and FL that have him cybering and stuff. He later told me he did it because of my snooping and I told him I only snooped because he was going behind my back!
So after the tears and stuff we told each other sorry and went back to normal...UNTIL...he started to go on FB at night or go to the bathroom when someone messaged him...I decided to snoop one more time and found out he was still doing it! and recently too! and with someone I trusted, I deleted her from my FB and decided to do the same thing he did but with her EX...I cybered with him, but you know what...even out of spit that one time I felt sick and disgusted and never did it again, so I told the guy to tell his EX to back off. But she hasn't and he still has his FL account on...
Here's the best part the only time we do have sex it seems is right after he gets done cybering with someone! and the other reason why I decided to stop the open relationship was because it was one sided anyway, I gave him what he wanted as long as he followed my rules...and I followed his one rule "NO guys can touch me or anything!" which was completely one sided since I aloud girls to touch him even through my jealousy!
everything has got me bristled and confused....I constantly think he doesn't want me anymore and that some girl is trying to steal him.
I'm so confused I don't know what else to say...so sorry if its a bit confusing
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So whatever ended up happening? I'm guessing you dumped the loser?? HE SOUNDED LIKE A LOSER. I could go on and on about why I say he sounds like a loser, but just give the update.
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