What are the possible effects of a 59 year old man having constant sex with two men.
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Well Wendy, is this 59 yr old man having sex with 2 women at the same time? Is he in good health at this time? There are many questions that need answers, but if you are asking about his mental state of mind from sleeping with 2 different ladies then yes there could be some issues.
Say that he is sleeping with 2 women at the same time, many people get strong feelings that devlope over a period of time which can hurt a persons mental state of mind if the situation changes to something one of the three do not like. Meaning that if someone says I'm done with this and another person tries to change their mind etc. it can really mess with someones head in a negative way.
If he is having sex with 2 different ladies then the only thing I can see that could be harmful to him is that if the two ladies do not know each other and then find out about the situation one of them could get very upset and then who knows.
Basically, it all boils down to what he likes to do. If he is having fun then I'm sure he'll continue to keep on doing what he's doing. Aside from STD's and the like I'm sure he knows what he's doing and has weighed the possible outcomes both good and bad.
Hope this helps :-)
Say that he is sleeping with 2 women at the same time, many people get strong feelings that devlope over a period of time which can hurt a persons mental state of mind if the situation changes to something one of the three do not like. Meaning that if someone says I'm done with this and another person tries to change their mind etc. it can really mess with someones head in a negative way.
If he is having sex with 2 different ladies then the only thing I can see that could be harmful to him is that if the two ladies do not know each other and then find out about the situation one of them could get very upset and then who knows.
Basically, it all boils down to what he likes to do. If he is having fun then I'm sure he'll continue to keep on doing what he's doing. Aside from STD's and the like I'm sure he knows what he's doing and has weighed the possible outcomes both good and bad.
Hope this helps :-)
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There are no physical contraindications for a man to have more than one female sexual partner, whatsoever, if the health of all parties is good, and the relationships are 'permanent' or 'static' (non-promiscuous)
Problems usually occur at an emotional level in this situation - competition for attention, jealousy, feelings of betrayal, etc. Also, if one or more parties has no commitment to keeping the relationships static and permanent (non-promiscuous with other 'temporary' partners), then health risks to both the men and women in these relationships pose a VERY real threat.
If having multiple partners is simply for sexual gratification, then I recommend highly against it. My opinion is that having sex outside a lasting personal relationship is unhealthy - physically and mentally - sooner or later one or both partners will be hurt.
Lasting personal relationships -(known to those who have them, as 'REAL LOVE')- require deep understanding, firm commitment, limitless patience, and endless perseverence (some might use the term 'long-suffering', and be 'spot on'). Add to those requirements an infinite concern for the welfare of your partner(s), and you realize that having sex really isn't a big part of this scene! Sure, it happens, and it's wonderful when two people share in a physical bonding when they have a pre-existing stable emotional bond as well.
So, having sex with multiple partners isn't the real problem. Being able to have meaningful, mature, and healthy relationships with them is the real issue.
The problems experienced in personal realationships grow exponentially - not additively - as the number of people involved in the relationship grows. If one man is capable of providing for ALL of the needs of more than one woman, then he's deserving of praise! The world needs more such men. If more than one woman can be happy and fulfilled with one man, then the same applies to them. The men and women involved in making this work will certainly require more capacity and effectiveness at managing relationships and controlling their feelings than most people in the world.
When I use the term 'control', I'm not talking about controlling others. I'm talking about controlling 'self', because there is absolutely no room in this type of relationship for selfishness or self aggrandizement. We've certainly seen more than enough of THAT in the polygamous cult mentality highlighted in the news media recently. I'm talking about mature, open relationships, where all parties are concerned about the welfare (both physically and mentally) of their partners.
I speak from experience - It can and does work, but I don't recommend it for anyone who is incapable of the type of commitment it takes.
Judging from the current divorce rates, it seems that most people are incapable of sustaining a permanent relationship with ONE partner, let alone two, or multiple.
I hope someone finds my comments useful........
Problems usually occur at an emotional level in this situation - competition for attention, jealousy, feelings of betrayal, etc. Also, if one or more parties has no commitment to keeping the relationships static and permanent (non-promiscuous with other 'temporary' partners), then health risks to both the men and women in these relationships pose a VERY real threat.
If having multiple partners is simply for sexual gratification, then I recommend highly against it. My opinion is that having sex outside a lasting personal relationship is unhealthy - physically and mentally - sooner or later one or both partners will be hurt.
Lasting personal relationships -(known to those who have them, as 'REAL LOVE')- require deep understanding, firm commitment, limitless patience, and endless perseverence (some might use the term 'long-suffering', and be 'spot on'). Add to those requirements an infinite concern for the welfare of your partner(s), and you realize that having sex really isn't a big part of this scene! Sure, it happens, and it's wonderful when two people share in a physical bonding when they have a pre-existing stable emotional bond as well.
So, having sex with multiple partners isn't the real problem. Being able to have meaningful, mature, and healthy relationships with them is the real issue.
The problems experienced in personal realationships grow exponentially - not additively - as the number of people involved in the relationship grows. If one man is capable of providing for ALL of the needs of more than one woman, then he's deserving of praise! The world needs more such men. If more than one woman can be happy and fulfilled with one man, then the same applies to them. The men and women involved in making this work will certainly require more capacity and effectiveness at managing relationships and controlling their feelings than most people in the world.
When I use the term 'control', I'm not talking about controlling others. I'm talking about controlling 'self', because there is absolutely no room in this type of relationship for selfishness or self aggrandizement. We've certainly seen more than enough of THAT in the polygamous cult mentality highlighted in the news media recently. I'm talking about mature, open relationships, where all parties are concerned about the welfare (both physically and mentally) of their partners.
I speak from experience - It can and does work, but I don't recommend it for anyone who is incapable of the type of commitment it takes.
Judging from the current divorce rates, it seems that most people are incapable of sustaining a permanent relationship with ONE partner, let alone two, or multiple.
I hope someone finds my comments useful........
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