I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. Lately I have been seeing him with some ugly woman. I can't understand that he is with her, I look far more attractive. He can do so much better. My question is why do guys have sex with ugly women?
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Someone who says that looks don't matter is lying. That is the first thing that we see, the thing that attracts us to someone. However, it would be also stupid if that is the only thing we are into. If a person is not interesting and has nothing in common with us, then what is the point of staying with her or him. Just because someone could see us with them? One of the most important things in a relationship is how is our partner making us feel. Men sometimes have sex with less attractive women because they feel safer. They don't feel like they have to impress them. They can be what they really are, without any act. They think that less attractive women don't expect too much of them. Of course, this has a bit to do with their egos. Sometimes they get carried away and think only about themselves.
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Hi, sorry for you broke up with your boyfriend, on the other way, may be you take the right way.
I am a boy having a series of girls in my life and i am talking with an experince. trust me, the beauty is in ones feeling. I had some beautifuly women but never felt satisfied. some of ugly woman passed to my life, I do remember them.
Beautifuly woman they are less carefulness for men, psycholgically feels beauty and expect to be cared, rather than care (more than 75%). while those ugly ones feels themselfs ugly and respect the boys existances. once a boy appear they realy care.
I don't mean that, beautifuly girls don't know how to care... I talking in psychological point of view. unless otherwise the beloved not yet found.
I am a boy having a series of girls in my life and i am talking with an experince. trust me, the beauty is in ones feeling. I had some beautifuly women but never felt satisfied. some of ugly woman passed to my life, I do remember them.
Beautifuly woman they are less carefulness for men, psycholgically feels beauty and expect to be cared, rather than care (more than 75%). while those ugly ones feels themselfs ugly and respect the boys existances. once a boy appear they realy care.
I don't mean that, beautifuly girls don't know how to care... I talking in psychological point of view. unless otherwise the beloved not yet found.
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i believe that men feel to mentally challenged when it comes to having a attractive woman as a partner think about it if your partner is not that good looking then you will feel more secure that you only like him a no one else does ! he probally though that so many men are looking at you and thta hell never be enough for you its well feeling your to good for him !! its not your fault he needs to deal with his insecuritys that you will ifnd something better than him . he has coped with this by picking a woman that i would imagine from what you have said is probally a lot less attractive than you now he will feel no one will be looking at her and totally secure that he only likes her an dno one else!!!! try to think of it as a compliment he felt you were better than him ! :-P and as for the sex part well he wont feel infeirier that hes not good an ugly woman means the man feels he can do anything to please her !! and with you well obviously you were a whole lot better in bed than he was !! now think about that dont bring yourself down xx
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it could be shes giving him more than u offered . better sex treats him nicer, is a lot more wild i dunno but good luck.
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I don't know about your case in particular, but I am a 24 year old man who has had a sexual relationship with a 59 year old woman. While I would not say she was ugly, I think many people would have.
While she had not the prettiest face around, and was overweight, the point is that to my eyes, she is a sensible and kind woman. She's very nice with me, and very open about herself and her feelings. Sex with her was absolutely wonderful, we really enjoyed each other, and she was the best sexual partner I ever had. :-D
Perhaps to other people, our relation would have seemed odd, but for us it was all right. Beauty or ugliness is in the eyes of the one looking, but they are very relative and subjective values. Maybe a reason why you think she is ugly is because of your experience with this man.
While she had not the prettiest face around, and was overweight, the point is that to my eyes, she is a sensible and kind woman. She's very nice with me, and very open about herself and her feelings. Sex with her was absolutely wonderful, we really enjoyed each other, and she was the best sexual partner I ever had. :-D
Perhaps to other people, our relation would have seemed odd, but for us it was all right. Beauty or ugliness is in the eyes of the one looking, but they are very relative and subjective values. Maybe a reason why you think she is ugly is because of your experience with this man.
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When I first began dating my boyfriend, I didn't find him the best looking. But now that I've been dating him for nearly a year, I think he is the most handsome and sexy man that ever walked the earth. I'm not sure if he's growing into his looks or if he looks different to me because of my emotions. Haha.
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What may be handsome or beautiful in the eyes of the beholder, may be not so much in the eyes of the one who is looking at it. My daughter married a guy who she swore was drop dead gorgeous. She couldn't wait until we met him. Well, we did, and he is not. He looks like a hobit. Now she hates him.
I think when we are young, looks are very important. We like to know that the person we are with is "hot". We love to hear that he or she is totally gorgeous. As we get older, i think looks are not to important anymore. My son is 32, he always had a hot chick hanging off him, beautiful face, hot body, but not so much between the ears. She was fine until she opened her mouth. Then he got married to my daughter in law. She dresses like a nun and always wears her hair pulled back in a tight bun. She refuses to wear shorts in the summer and resorts to "skorts" A bikini is out of the question, and just recently allowed herself to even wear a one piece. She is not pretty, but pleasant, and i have no problem with her. She is his choice and she is good to him and that's what counts. Who knows, maybe she is an animal between the sheets. o.O
I think when we are young, looks are very important. We like to know that the person we are with is "hot". We love to hear that he or she is totally gorgeous. As we get older, i think looks are not to important anymore. My son is 32, he always had a hot chick hanging off him, beautiful face, hot body, but not so much between the ears. She was fine until she opened her mouth. Then he got married to my daughter in law. She dresses like a nun and always wears her hair pulled back in a tight bun. She refuses to wear shorts in the summer and resorts to "skorts" A bikini is out of the question, and just recently allowed herself to even wear a one piece. She is not pretty, but pleasant, and i have no problem with her. She is his choice and she is good to him and that's what counts. Who knows, maybe she is an animal between the sheets. o.O
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I've got three explanations for this... 1 you damaged his self confidence 2 he may have created a bias on attractive girl.... did you cheep on him or did you seek a lot of attention from other guys? or 3 he isn't shallow and is a nice guy..... It sounds like you lost a keeper but you did have a pretty shallow question so it's understandable why
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because such womens are very beautiful internally also very good response in intercourse and ready to try all things as they dont know when other time they will have sex shirrishat yahoo.co.in
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Hi, I am also an experienced man, and I COMPLETELY agree with you. I had relations with some beautiful women. All were broken sooner or later. All became frustrating for me and also for her. Now I have a so stable five-year relation with a WOMAN, not a "pretty woman". I am so happy with her. I must confess that I still look beatiful women on the street, but I prefer her kindness as a person, and the way she understands life, similar than me, and also how she respects me.
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Because so-called "ugly" p***y generates more excitement because of the labeled taboo associated with a woman who is so-called ugly, which in and of itself, makes it "forbidden"! Biblical connotations association with looks, desires, sin, hedonistic behavior, etc. The more intoxicated one is, one tends to fantasize about abnormal sexual behavior.
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