So, I decided to have sex the first time with this guy I was dating. First we made out profusely, and then the clothes came off, a condom went on and then he put his penis into my vagina and started moving it back and forth. It hurt slightly, but he wasn't being rough. Also, his penis didn't go completely in, only about half way. (I'm guessing because I had never had sex before and I'm pretty tight down there.) But after about a minute, he stopped, and said "oh, I'm sorry". I didn't know what happened. And then he said something like.. "it must have been from all of the making out". We had made out for about 5 mins. or it may have been more than that. I was still confused about what happened, and wondered why he stopped. When I was taking a cab home later, I asked him about it again and he said... "I wasn't feeling it". That made me feel bad as if I had done something wrong or like I turned him off. I still haven't asked him what exactly happened though. When I told my friend this, who has had experience with sex, she said that he ejaculated. I wonder if he did though. I certainly hope he wasn't turned off by me. He was hard while we were making out and when he put his penis in me, so I don't know why he would be turned off. It could be a possibility, I guess. Talk about bad first experiences! What do you all think? Do you think he ejaculated or that he was just turned off?
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I'd bet more money than I can afford to loose that he ejaculated and was embarrased about it. We men pride ourselves on being macho-studly-porn stars in sexual situations and when we finish before our partner even starts, its a blow to our pride and confidence.
Relax, and don't worry about him being turned off. It was your first time (I don't know of anyone who can brag about their first time) and your boyfriend is probably not much more experianced than you. Even if he was an old pro, trying to penetrate a virgin is probably more stimulation than most mortal men can resist for more than a minute or two. Just the fact that it was your first time together would intensify everything so the odds were stacked against him to 'perform'.
Relax, and don't worry about him being turned off. It was your first time (I don't know of anyone who can brag about their first time) and your boyfriend is probably not much more experianced than you. Even if he was an old pro, trying to penetrate a virgin is probably more stimulation than most mortal men can resist for more than a minute or two. Just the fact that it was your first time together would intensify everything so the odds were stacked against him to 'perform'.
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