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I've just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant and personally I wasn't scared or thought "oh god" however, when I told my partner he was fine and couldn't wait to tell our parents etc. Since then he has spoken about it, made sure I am ok and been fine ... And then! He told me he doesn't feel he is ready to be a dad and some reasons are selfish reasons, some are his career, and he doesn't think our relationship is 100% to being a baby between us. When I asked why bother with being all upbeat and happy his answer was I thought if I said those things and try it would come. He is scared he won't like/love the baby and the same reverse or to feel the baby has stopped him from doing anything. I feel on a rollercoaster! We both do want a baby, we are 26 and have been together 6 years and lived together 3 years. I understand he wants us to enjoy our time but now it's happened i feel it's the right thing to do Any advice?

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i guess dont talk to him about it
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