Fingering, Implantation Bleeding, and Pregnancy??????

KittyKat963 wrote:

Hello, I am a 19 year old female and I am in a predicument. Normally, I have never been sexually active and still don't feel too strongly of it BUT I HAVE been doing some activities in this past month due to 'getting in the heat' of things. The activities I have done are making out, getting naked, fingering, me giving oral, and NEVER direct genital-to-genital contact, meaning NO intercourse as well. I am successfully calming down on such activities, though, but noticed in about a hour ago that I had some really, really light brown discharge on my toilet paper. I have read that this could be a sign of implantation bleeding, which we all know is a sign of pregnancy. This has REALLY freaked me out. I mean, from a sex ed website I use, it clearly states that you'd have to have your hand literally DRIPPING with fresh semen in order to create a pregnancy with fingering and you know something? When he came, it was never NEAR my genitals and whenever he DID finger me, It was never DRIPPING with fresh semen. I mean, I would know if it was and it never looked like it so this increases my scare a bit. According to my calculations, my period is due on the 24th, so I was wondering if this extremly light, brown discharge is due to the fact my period is coming????? I still feel the signs I normally due when I start, such as cramping and stuff but this light brown discharge really has me frazzled. Opinions on this? Please??

Hi Kitty,
Unless bf came in his hand and immediatly started to finger you with the same wet hand, don't worry. Our periods have a tendency to do strange things sometimes, like going off schedule or spotting just before it comes full blast. You need to calm down bc stress and aggrivation can and will delay your period. If your period doesn't come on or close to the 24th, don't panic. Give it a few more days. Like i said, stress is a distractor.