I just turned 16 on April 15, & I lost my virginity on April 13th , my boyfriend didn't put on the condom in the first place , but it was like a 2minutes without it then he put on the condom , it lasted about 20-30 min because I told him to stop .
The next day on Saturday the 14th the afternoon I felt sick , I wanted to throw up & I felt dizzy . So idk what's the problem . Now since it's Tuesday the 17th I still feel sick .
So idk if I'm pregnant or not ??
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No, I would doubt it. Morning sickness usually takes around 4 weeks to kick in. I would know- I'm pregnant. :P You just lost your virginity- it's a new sensation. Your body is reacting. FYI- not like I'm advocating you to go around doing it without protection because things CAN happen on the first try- but I have been with my husband since I was 15 and we are now 22. (But I was 21 when i got pregnant.. big diff..) We haven't worn a condom for about 5 years- when we moved in together. It took until now. It's not as though this happens for everyone- again, some DO have it happen on the first shot- but chances indicate that 1) he probably has to cum in you without protection- not just pre-cum- and 2) you will do it a lot more than once. :)
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Okay good , cause even my boyfriend is freaking out about it , were about to be a year & the talks we had , we don't want kids now .
But thanks for letting me know (:
Next time I'll be sure he puts on the condom before we do it .
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I know how you feel. :) My husband was actually my second- I dated a real jerk just before him for a couple of months- and he actually forced me to let him without a condom when I said no. He pulled out at the end and cummed outside. I knew it was possible to get pregnant from pre-cum so when I was late on my period, I absolutely freaked. (I was 15). But, that is because I was new to sex and it feels like every time you do it you could get pregnant- just not the case. :) BTW, dumped his ass after I took the negative pregnancy test. :P But yes. Condoms are good. Lol. I can't imagine what my life would be like if I had gotten pregnant then. I would have a 7 year old. :S Not a baby in the next week or less. Dang. I also would never have met my wonderful husband. :) But who knows- this guy could be your keeper too. :)
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lol , my boyfriend is my 2nd too , I'm glad I didn't loose it to the first one ,
My boyfriend still wants me to take like 3 test just to double check .
He's that worried . Lol
But I doubt I'm gonna be pregnant cause it was a quickie .
Gosh this sick feeling sucks -___-
So why does it take 4 weeks to go away ?
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I'll re-write it. Lol. Not sure why it erased the last one. :S
You won't be sick for 4 weeks. If you were pregnant, you would get morning sickness about 4 weeks after you have sex. It wouldn't happen right away. It usually stays until you are 12 weeks. (LIES though, because I had it until a couple of weeks ago and I am 39 weeks now, due in 7 days..but I am one of the unlucky ones) Morning sickness is so bad that you vomit. For me, I would throw up morning, evening, and night and it was so bad I had to go on sick leave from work for 2 months until the medicine for it FINALLY started working and I only felt sick and would only actually threw up if I forgot to take it.
The queasiness you feel is likely due to stress, because you are anxious about all of this. Probably not initially, but that is why the sick feeling is still lingering. It can be very nerve wracking. The thing is though, there is no need to do 3 tests (although I'm not one to talk- I took 4 when I found out I was pregnant. Lol. But it was a waste of money- they all say the same thing.) But you need not worry- he didn't even cum in you. There is like a 0.0001% chance you are pregnant. Adults like to tell teenagers that it is almost a 50/50 chance you will get pregnant, even if you try the old pull-out trick, but it just isn't true. The do it to scare you because there is a small chance and if you knew how small it was you wouldn't be so careful. And, seeing as some people do get unlucky, the try to protect you from that because high school is the worst time to get pregnant.
But honestly, don't worry. Take 1 test to ease your mind and then relax. Just wear one in the future because, even without the pre-cum factor, believe me.. it's easy to get carried away. :P It's pretty exciting when you get to let him finish in you without a condom but until you are married or at least living together, bad, bad idea. Lol. Although I'm sure I don't really have to tell you that now. :)
You won't be sick for 4 weeks. If you were pregnant, you would get morning sickness about 4 weeks after you have sex. It wouldn't happen right away. It usually stays until you are 12 weeks. (LIES though, because I had it until a couple of weeks ago and I am 39 weeks now, due in 7 days..but I am one of the unlucky ones) Morning sickness is so bad that you vomit. For me, I would throw up morning, evening, and night and it was so bad I had to go on sick leave from work for 2 months until the medicine for it FINALLY started working and I only felt sick and would only actually threw up if I forgot to take it.
The queasiness you feel is likely due to stress, because you are anxious about all of this. Probably not initially, but that is why the sick feeling is still lingering. It can be very nerve wracking. The thing is though, there is no need to do 3 tests (although I'm not one to talk- I took 4 when I found out I was pregnant. Lol. But it was a waste of money- they all say the same thing.) But you need not worry- he didn't even cum in you. There is like a 0.0001% chance you are pregnant. Adults like to tell teenagers that it is almost a 50/50 chance you will get pregnant, even if you try the old pull-out trick, but it just isn't true. The do it to scare you because there is a small chance and if you knew how small it was you wouldn't be so careful. And, seeing as some people do get unlucky, the try to protect you from that because high school is the worst time to get pregnant.
But honestly, don't worry. Take 1 test to ease your mind and then relax. Just wear one in the future because, even without the pre-cum factor, believe me.. it's easy to get carried away. :P It's pretty exciting when you get to let him finish in you without a condom but until you are married or at least living together, bad, bad idea. Lol. Although I'm sure I don't really have to tell you that now. :)
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