Hello,
I am facing some problem in my sex life. Actually i comes out very soon during sex because of which my girl never gets satisfied. i want to know it this is a disease or i am not well physically. Please let me know how i can i control my sperm for long period during sex with out using any medicine.
I am waiting for your reply.
Thanks
Rahul
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Hi Rahul and welcome on SteadyHealth.com.
I don't think you're unhealthy but obviously your problem is connected with premature ejaculation. It's everything up to your mind since you control your sexual activity as any other body activities using your brain.
Anyways, you posted this topic in a wrong discussion so I just moved it to appropriate place so you could get more replies that would help you solve your issue.
I don't think you're unhealthy but obviously your problem is connected with premature ejaculation. It's everything up to your mind since you control your sexual activity as any other body activities using your brain.
Anyways, you posted this topic in a wrong discussion so I just moved it to appropriate place so you could get more replies that would help you solve your issue.
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Hi Rahul,
It is likely premature ejaculation and it's very common.
As you get more experienced the problem will likely get better. But, you need to learn to understand the feelings your body is giving you, the clues, that you will ejaculate soon. As you masturbate, try to bring yourself to the point just before ejaculating and stop. Do that as many times as you can. Then, when you are having sex, when you get those feelings, stop. It may take some time as you are "retraining" your body.
One suspected cause of PE is that guys, while growing up, frequently masturbate and try to ejaculate as fast as they can.
You can also try to satisfy your girlfriend in other ways first.
Some guys will also masturbate just beforehand, so that it takes them longer when they do have sex.
It is likely premature ejaculation and it's very common.
As you get more experienced the problem will likely get better. But, you need to learn to understand the feelings your body is giving you, the clues, that you will ejaculate soon. As you masturbate, try to bring yourself to the point just before ejaculating and stop. Do that as many times as you can. Then, when you are having sex, when you get those feelings, stop. It may take some time as you are "retraining" your body.
One suspected cause of PE is that guys, while growing up, frequently masturbate and try to ejaculate as fast as they can.
You can also try to satisfy your girlfriend in other ways first.
Some guys will also masturbate just beforehand, so that it takes them longer when they do have sex.
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Hello,
First of all i am very much thank full to you people for giving me the suggestion. Surely i will work on this. So in a day how many times i need to masturbate.
Can you please explain me in details as why this PE will happen
Thanks
Rahul
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Hi Rahul,
You don't "need" to masturbate at all.
If you masturbate ONCE just before you begin sexual activity it may make it take longer for you to climax when you are with your partner.
As to learning to understand the feelings, you can do that when you want. The idea is to stop yourself just before you get to the point of "no return." You want to keep trying to approach that point, without ejaculating, so you know what the feeling is like of when you need to stop.
I don't mean to masturbate many times a day, you try to reach that point many times in a SINGLE masturbation session.
Hope it clears it up.
Good luck.
You don't "need" to masturbate at all.
If you masturbate ONCE just before you begin sexual activity it may make it take longer for you to climax when you are with your partner.
As to learning to understand the feelings, you can do that when you want. The idea is to stop yourself just before you get to the point of "no return." You want to keep trying to approach that point, without ejaculating, so you know what the feeling is like of when you need to stop.
I don't mean to masturbate many times a day, you try to reach that point many times in a SINGLE masturbation session.
Hope it clears it up.
Good luck.
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Ya its clear surely i will work on this. I just want to add one more point. Actually till now i didn't had sex with any girl. This was the first time. So do you think because of that i am getting little excited during sex.
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Yes, that will do it.
I'm sure you were very excited.
It should get better as you gain experience. Good luck.
I'm sure you were very excited.
It should get better as you gain experience. Good luck.
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