I am 44 yrs old and I had a neph. on May 27 2013, left kidney, ureter and pc of bladder removed.  The path results indicated the carcinoma in my bladder was high grade, but the lymphnode they dissected did not have cancer.  What should I be worried about?   Another thing is I have a period every 5-6 months and facial hair!!!  My GP says my hormones are good, not menopausal???  Thing is, I do not have anyone in my age frame that has my same symptoms/diagnosis.  I see the surgeon soon and am going to inform him of everything.  I would like to know if there is someone like me out there.  I was a heavy smoker, just an FYI.