Hove big virginity bleeding needs to be?

i have got married a year and a half ago, and now i am having a beautiful girl from my husband. when get married i was virgin, during the intercourse for the first time i was so frustrated and afraid but after we were done i didn't bleed they i found just very very little spots in the bathroom ..now my husband doesn't believe that it is right thing to just bleed this little, so is this true if i bleed very little what is that mean and if there is any way to proof what happened, please let me know my life will be destroyed because my husband doubt that fact :'(