Ok, so I was raped when I was younger (I've gotten over the fact) and I'm leery about sex, but me and my boyfriend really want to try it... since I seem to be the only one not completely ready, I'm trying to use toys and stuff, but when i was attempting to insert a dildo about the size of my boyfriend's penis, it seemed like it wouldn't go in very far, and if I tried to go in any further than I had... well lets just say I was almost in tears. Is there a medical reason, or something I can do to make it less painfull?...