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Im 21 an have recently come to terms that Im bisexual although I wouldnt exactly call myself that...

I would call myself 'Hetroflexible'. were Im prodominatley straight but if a sexual encounter arose with a member of the same sex I wouldnt turn it down(although Ive never had any I can get aroused by attractive men with good bodys). I dont have any romantic feelings or emotions for guys, its just physical and limited at that.

I know Im definatley not gay as I masturbate to straight porn and have fantasies about women and have dated women throughout the years.

Ive never told anyone this and I want help in accepting myself.....When conversations arise with my family and friends about gay people, I become very embarassed turning red and be on the verge of a panic attack where I feel I have to leave the room as I think they think Im gay or are going to find out I have these same sex attractions.

I was teased in my teenager years and called gay, more as a joke than anything but it annoyed me then and I think thats were the embarasment stems from.

Just want some advice on how you other guys have dealed with accepting yourselves and got over any embarasment you felt.

Thanks for listening.

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I think you are not what are you thinking just concentrate on natural things. Whenever you feel anything unnatural without inner satisfaction, try to come out of that situation with a movement away, ok Good luck
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sounds like youre one of those bi males...but dont want to be discovered in a gay/bi act
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you dont need to execept it, it wasnt a choice you made, just go with the flow whatever comes your way take it if a man makes you happy go with him if a girl makes you happy go with her, Love dosent have a gender so whoever it may be men or women your still human, but untill then lay low dont worry about all that your young, so have fun;-)

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hi im bi but preffer guys i have 2 ex wives and 4 kids but i know my prefferance is guys so to me your a bi guy who is afraid of others knowing be happy go out of town and find a gay bar try it if its not your thing then you will just have to live with your douts
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