i am 18 years old...and i am still a virgin...and im gay...and i want this guy to notice me but hes not gay, or bi...and i know that for a fact. but there are all these guys that i want to be with but there are some that i think are gay, and dont want to say anything that they are or not. and i want to be in a relationship with a guy, and there seems to be no one here where i live that is gay or bi..and if they are ther too young, or way too old...i can not find anyone that is around my age. and if they are around my age and they like me want to be with me they live so far away. How can i tell if someone is gay or not. and how can ask them to go out with me? Please i need help. i am great at talking to people and helping others...but when it comes down to me im as clueless as a lump on a log. Please someone HELP ME.
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As far as the cute guy who is not gay or bi, forget it, if you approach that he might do the guy thing and take a poke at you. Being that you are a gay man you should be able to tell who is in your league and who isn't. It is inappropriate to saunter up to a hottie and ask him what his sexual orientation is, so set your sites on something and watch from a distance for a while. As around about him, it shouldn't take long to find out which direction he goes in. Do you know anyone in his circle of friends? You may be able to tell by the company he keeps. The last thing you want to do is to act desperate. In time you will be able to figure it out. Have you checked out any gay bars, being that your 18 and depends on where you live, you may be to young to get in. Also, check out friend finder on line, could be just friends, guys lookin for girls, guys lookin for guys, girls lookin for guys and so on. Just enter your area and you may get some responses. Many of these sites are free.
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thank you for your info...and i will take this seriously...but the thing is most people here where i live tend to get......affended if you are even talking about gay, or bi pople...and majority of those people are the ones that take a likeing for...thats why i am so sceptical about some of the guys that i get atracted to. but i will try that friedn finder. thank you for helping me out. and i am here if you have any questions =)
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Hi kmb_man,
Being 18 year old isn't easy. :-) I have to tell you that.
And I like bbfeets advice, don't look desperate. Have you had any experience in dating before?
Being 18 year old isn't easy. :-) I have to tell you that.
And I like bbfeets advice, don't look desperate. Have you had any experience in dating before?
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No...because everyone i ever asked out always said...no, your too much like a brother, or just falt out laugh in my face...
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its not that im making my self look despreat...i dont just stalk the person that i want ot be with i just look at that person for like 5 sec. then look away. but i understand what your saying and i appriciate all the advice that your giving me. and i know how hard being 18 is...but thank you all for all your help and advice.!!! :-D :-D :-D
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How can you find the person you wanna be with. What if they're taken? Just a few questions.
1) Are you just supposed to appropriate cute guys?
2) How come guys don't approach girls?
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