I've always wanted to penetrate myself during masturbation. I've tried many times, but I've always chickened out.
My hymen leaves only a very small hole for me to menstruate through, and I cannot imagine how I could stretch it out enough to actually finger myself. Also, I find myself more attracted to women and the male genitals repulse me in a way, so I would like to break it myself in a way that would be easier.
I would also appreciate that you keep in mind that I don't care whether my future partner thinks they're my first or not, and my hymen problem is preventing me from exploring myself sexually in my desires to find my G-spot among other things.
Thank you in advance.
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I have 2 suggestions that help:
1.) depending on how sexually aroused you can by rubbing your clit, you could try first masturbating until you are very aroused and your vagina is moist from natural lubrication. Once you are at this stage keep rubbing your clit with one hand and use the middle finger on the other hand to begin penetrating yourself. you can either increase the speed and force of your penetration slowly or try 1 swift insertion to break through.
2.) if you find that your vagina is just too tight and you don't produce enough natural lubricant, use the same method as above but put some baby oil on your finger to assist with making it easier to penetrate yourself.
I would also suggest it might be more comfortable and less messy do it in a nice warm bath. (Remembering it most likely cause a little bleeding if you do break it)
In any case I would suggest being well aroused before trying to break it, as the sexual arousal will take your mind off the fear you have of breaking your hymen
1.) depending on how sexually aroused you can by rubbing your clit, you could try first masturbating until you are very aroused and your vagina is moist from natural lubrication. Once you are at this stage keep rubbing your clit with one hand and use the middle finger on the other hand to begin penetrating yourself. you can either increase the speed and force of your penetration slowly or try 1 swift insertion to break through.
2.) if you find that your vagina is just too tight and you don't produce enough natural lubricant, use the same method as above but put some baby oil on your finger to assist with making it easier to penetrate yourself.
I would also suggest it might be more comfortable and less messy do it in a nice warm bath. (Remembering it most likely cause a little bleeding if you do break it)
In any case I would suggest being well aroused before trying to break it, as the sexual arousal will take your mind off the fear you have of breaking your hymen
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