How do you get over Ricky Martin?

Say what you want about Ricky Martin but I still can't get over the fact that he's gay! :'( I was literally in love with this man! Why, Ricky, why?! I was constantly arguing with my (male) friends over whether he was gay or not...and then Ricky stepped out of the closet! You can imagine what they did to me ! :-D Anyway, I just read an article where Ricky talks about his twins, how musical they are and stuff like that. And he reopened the wound!:-(
Help me guys! XD