it is his choice too, marriage is a partnership not just about the woman, obviously you are some crazy feminist that thinks very poorly of men. I would hate to be your husband. I read nothing that this man said he only married this woman for a kid as you somehow did, but clearly he wants a child with this woman and would like to remain married to her, thats why he is asking for help. I dont believe that he posted this question to be attacked by some leftwing nutjob. people ask questions for help if you cant help than dont reply. As for your question my friend I cant help I am in the similar situation thats how i found myself on this webpage, I only replied because I so sick of people asking questions and getting attacked by dumbshits and this lady just pissed me off. good luck to you or anyone else who has this problem.
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f**k u b***h! give the guy a break. women dont need to stand up for themselves these days cuss no one gives a sh*t so stop pretending people do
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I concur I am going through exactly the same thing and I am in agony ... I wish I could talk to like minded people who are experiencing this anguish. If you ever want to chat feel free to let me know and I would be happy to chat
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Jesus f*****g christ people. IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO HAVE ONE, THEN THAT MEANS NOOOOOOO. Not,"maybe after you convince me." No. And sh*t, maybe she'll NEVER want to have them! That's her decision! And the same goes for men! That doesn't make her the bad guy here, and neither does it make the husband! But if she is not ready, then she's not ready. If she knows you want kids, then she'll tell you when she's ready. But if you're just sitting there waiting for her to say yes, and plotting ways to figure out how to convince her, then think about how that's affecting you. Are YOU happy? How long do you think you're going to keep waiting? You two want different things. And maybe, it's not meant to be.
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Women decides to make carrier first. They mmakes husbund unhappy...
actually they gt nothing after 5-6 yrs of career. and after watching their friends kid they demands for baby....
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U bogus as hell this guy wants a kid OK women can change there mind but also she should told OK I want kids but my mind could change I'm not on here to talk sh*t just help bro out
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same here ... she changed her mind after death of her mom... 3 years already she still dont open for this discussion.
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Do YOU know how NOT to be a CONDISENDING as****e?
We all know who's body it is, these conversations often happen and then someone changed their minds.
Here is the deal to.OP: we love our wives, they decided part way in that there will be no children. Would I leave my wife if she couldn't have children? No I love her. Will i leave her for refusing to now have a child? No. I've had offers from women but I am a strongly loyal to.my wife.
Now is it ok for me to feel sad that I don't have a child? If you don't think so should reflect on the prejudices you obviously feel.
What has been the result for me after all these years? Extreme forms of depression, sucidal thoughts, worthlessness, empty feeling and lots of therapy.
I came here hoping to just read folks who are going through similar issues
Instead I got a face full of fake feminists with all their c**t-o-rific answers.
To the men: please seek professional help. You aren't alone and it doesn't mean you are a bad person for not having a child (even though it may feel that way). It is genetics to want to have children and it is your wife who is the odd one. My wife is one of those old ones who don't feel the call but she's brilliant smart and wonderful. I want her more than a child.
So I keep it to myself and move forward. Some times (like today) it just hits you hard. They pass.
We all know who's body it is, these conversations often happen and then someone changed their minds.
Here is the deal to.OP: we love our wives, they decided part way in that there will be no children. Would I leave my wife if she couldn't have children? No I love her. Will i leave her for refusing to now have a child? No. I've had offers from women but I am a strongly loyal to.my wife.
Now is it ok for me to feel sad that I don't have a child? If you don't think so should reflect on the prejudices you obviously feel.
What has been the result for me after all these years? Extreme forms of depression, sucidal thoughts, worthlessness, empty feeling and lots of therapy.
I came here hoping to just read folks who are going through similar issues
Instead I got a face full of fake feminists with all their c**t-o-rific answers.
To the men: please seek professional help. You aren't alone and it doesn't mean you are a bad person for not having a child (even though it may feel that way). It is genetics to want to have children and it is your wife who is the odd one. My wife is one of those old ones who don't feel the call but she's brilliant smart and wonderful. I want her more than a child.
So I keep it to myself and move forward. Some times (like today) it just hits you hard. They pass.
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You should not force your wife to have children. She will resent you. The woman is the one who has to do most of the work. You should have discussed this before marriage. Besides this issue are you both happy? If so stayed married & realize you do not get everything you want in life.
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