hey lads I’m a recovering sex addict  and I’ve had this issue not only after intercourse but after masturbating too, the best advice I can give you guys is don’t freak out that you have this problem or that problem unless you are skeptical of a woman you slept with. Anyways my fixes for this problem are pretty easy

1. I’ve noticed if your rather full in the stomach after ejaculating  pent up shite it’s helpful to sit on the John and relax for a bit and attempt to go #2 if possible.

2. While your on the toilet or someplace you won’t get water everywhere  take a paper cup like a Dixie cup no pun intended and submerge your tip of your penis in that for a few minutes the primary issue is your urethra is swollen from Vigorous friction the cold will help the muscles and tubes for lack of better terms to uninflame  and you’ll almost instantly feel relief.

This is an issue I’ve had to deal with since I was 14-15 jacking off now im 27 once in while it happens to me still if I try and masturbate too long or with too much force you should never have to grip your penis harder than if you were turning a doorknob lol otherwise your asking for swelling. 

In my travels and with my now girlfriend she has a smiliar problem because both of us kind of don’t know when to quit she gets sore and swollen and has gone to the extent of using a dildo ice mold to get her vaginal swelling down after intoxicaed sex but like I said we both are recovering sex and opiate users but this is real honest information don’t stress yourself thinking you have an std or problem with your bladder, mostly you’ve just made your dong swollen and need to ice/ cool it off. Anyways cheers and if anyone stumbles across this thread I hope my advice can help you feel better quicker!  Careful out there! -Jay