im on my fourth day and cannot have a BM i don’t want to push too much but it just feels stuck, as graphic as that might be. I can only manage to get blood to come out. I cannot get relief. I’ve tried stool softener, miralax, baths etc and cannot get rid of the sensation or urge to go and cannot manage to have my first BM. Please any advise is appreciated I’m in so much pain and discomfort i don’t know what to do