Hello, me and my husband are young couple recently married going on 6 months now. He has always drank since we have been together but ever since his mom died about a year ago, things have really gone down the drain. He currently has 2 DWI's both before he turned 21, and not even a year apart. I have tried and tried to be supportive, and just ask him to slow down but I just don't seem to be able to get through to him. He'll admit that he likes to drink, but he won't come out and admit that he has a problem. Between him and another roomate of ours we filled a garbage bag full of beer cans in less than a week. I mean seriously, that screams something out loud to me you know like ALCOHOLICS!!! No one around here understands how i feel. He gets mad at me because I won't drink with him. I don't understand why that really matters either.He makes plans with to go out with his friends and they have to go to the bar. And of course im stuck at home because im only 18, and half of the time i have his little girl with me. When he don't go out he always has to have it, he's always spending all of our money on it, and he gets mad at me when i say something about it. Between him and the other guy if they don't have a 12 pack, at least, to share it's world war 3 going on here. I just really need somebody to talk to, and possibly help me.