I tried to be helpful to her as i have definate panic and anxiety disorders.  Recently, I have found that if I don't speak to her (neighbor 1) for a few days, she becomes resentful and even hostile towards me.  Her whole demeanor changes.  She keeps score as to who is doing more for the other.  She is convinced that our other neighbor (neighbor2)  is stealing from her.  This is absolutely crazy. This women (neighbor2) has her own life and is definately not stealing from her.  Infact she just wants to be left alone.  I feel bad because neighbor 2 doesn't deserve these accusations.  I mean it is absolutely rediculous.  Neighbor1 is so paranoid she belives everytime she leaves her house neighbor2 immedialtley sneaks into her house and steals her belongings, even down to her tweezers and makeup wipes.  It is just so crazy, but if I disagree with her she becomes agitated and hostile.  How do I disassociate with her without hurting her feelings or causing her to retaliate on me?