ever since I can remember I have been materbating and getting my self off. I am 17 and have met some guy I really like and during sex I cannot cum. even in my previous relationships I have been unable to. I have experienced sexual traumer, and am bi sexual so I am curious if that is way... or perhaps over stimulation through out my life. not to mention my partner takes anti depressents and cannot last longer than 5 minutes before I just stops. he doesn't come... he just won't continue. it is causing me great stress and depression and I do not know what to do in the situation. I feel as if I put him off... and I feel like a freak that I can't cum. I have tried masturbating during sex but I cannot get there.... its only when I'm alone that I can. please help. I'm at breaking point. its really making the relationship hard and I don't even think he cares
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I used to be like this..mine was because I wasn't relaxed (even when I thought I was).
You've proved you can actually come..so that's clearly not the issue. Start relaxing, use a lot of foreplay and open up and tell you man what you like..show him how you do it if need be. I'm also bi-sexual and had sexual trauma. When I'm with a woman I cum very easily..cause it's so more sensual..there's more play, more excitement built up..not just knowing that it will lead to intercourse..then it will be over..plus you'll constantly be thinking in the back of your mind that you 'need' to cum - that will make it worse! Have you tried watching porno's even?
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