i love my ex so much, hes cheated many times and he lies so much, i want him to change but he still lies, i try to leave and move on with my life but he just keeps pulling me back and i say no but i always give in, he lies straight to my face and then when i find out hes lying he still lies, hes immature and cant handle a serious relationship everyone around me tells me to leave him and tells me theres other fish in the sea, i try to be strong and not let it ruin my life, i have often suicidal thoughts to try resolve my problems but i don't want my life to be ruined over this, i feel like no one cares and no one understands, it sounds pathetic that i make such a big deal over a boy, but surely someone must understand how hard i am finding it to walk away from something that was such a big part of my life, he was the only person i could just open up and be myself around, when we are good, we are so good, everything feels so perfect but then when its bad, it feels like there is nothing else in the world that could be as bad as how i feel. what do i do?
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Hi guest,
Leave. Don't look back just keep going.
He's cheated on you. There are other "fish" in the sea.
You WILL NEVER CHANGE HIM. Only HE can.
Good luck. If you stay with him you're going to need it (not meant to sound cruel).
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i went thru this same thing and yes i loved him with all my heart but i wasnt happy. i realized loving him wasnt worth being miserable. what i did was cut him off completely. i moved in with my grandparents, changed my number. deleted and blocked hom from social networks and hung out with all my single chick friend and became comfortable with myself and being by myself. i realized though that i didnt love him, i loved the idea of him. the idea of someone caring for me and being my prince charming but the thing is he wasnt ready to be that. a year later i found someone else whois ready to be that. from time to time my bad ex still comes back and says he will change but i watched the way he treats his gf now and trust me hes not going to change. once you realize you are inlove witth the idea of him you will break free. trust me. you may need a little push but have a little faith and patenice and you will break free like i did. if you need someone to talk to feel free to give me a message
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you have the same idea as everyone i know, but its more difficult then that, i have to build up a whole new life if i leave, as he was my life for a long time. thank you for the opinion and i will keep it in mind.
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Guest,
Right now though you are living HIS life. You do what he wants and when he wants. It's not YOUR life.
Cut your losses and move on. Of course it's difficult but that's part of life. Too many people want the "easy way out."
Don't look back!
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