Words cant describe my emotions

Hey gurl..
From my point of view, i really dont think thats the kind of guy u wanna live for..i think he's out there to use you, coz as a matter of fact, how can you have 2 abortions for him, 2 not even one, then you come to find out that he cheated on you...? as much as you love him, trust me, he's yet to hurt you more. I believe you're so beautiful plus you have so much potential in you that need not to go into waste...it time you get yaself together, and look out for a healthy and strong relationship with someone who truly loves you and who aint there to use and abuse your body, before its too late for you..
all the best hun..
Word Up!

First off, I'm sorry that you are going through something so terrible. Honestly, with the abortions, that was your choice and he should have no impact on whether you should give birth to YOUR CHILD or not. Being in a relationship, I know. It has to be on both parents parts. Obviously he isn't ready for such the commitment to be with you or your child; being you have gotten rid of 2. Love is love, you don't choose who to fall in love with but we choose who to be and continue to be happy with. I know you have to be a mess due to the fact he has been cheating on you. Been there, done that with the love of my life. Some people do the things they do because they are scared of the type of relationship they're in. I would tell you to leave him for emotional and health reasons but some people change. That doesn't mean, let him run all over you, but it does mean don't let yourself get so down anymore, as to really the abortions. If your not ready for a child, use precautions.

What do you recommend that someone do to get oer a guy though? I think it's easier said than done so I think that it'd be hard to get over. What would you recommend?