In the case above I think it is too one sided to be workable. It sounds like you might be smothering him and no man, especially one with little experience of women and life, can handle that. Personally I would let it go. You need to sort out your own life for yourself (get divorced or fix marriage) before even considering a new man. And definitely not for just a chance of having someone else who doesn't sound that interested. I know this is more easily said than done but no one can be happy with any man unless they are happy themselves to begin with.
I have been pursued by a 21 year old and he did all the running, not so in your case. He is probably flattered by the attention but if he really wanted you he'd tell you straight. It sounds like he has been quite honest with you and not led you to believe that you can be together.
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For the record my 33 year old guy and I were both single when we met, neither been married before, neither have children already.
We're both English and live about an hour and a half apart.
It's all above board ;-)
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When I was 53 he was just going to be 29. I am sure that what I feel is love, not only lust. I think still society is cruel towards the woman (older) and the man (younger) that got involve. Not 100% sure about his feelings,,,
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Wow! Congratulations!
I have been seeing a wonderful man, 26 years younger than me. He's younger than my son!
He and I have fallen in love and this is the BEST relationship by far! He and I talk about where we will be in 10-20 years from now.
I pray that I will marry him one day. I wish I could give him a child though.
I am beyond caring what people will say. I don't look my age and he doesn't look like his.
Thank you for being an inspiration for me. I won't doubt this love again!
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Thank you SO much for posting. I love listening to life experiences of people older than myself, they are more open and less judgmental. I am 44 and have a 21 year old lover. It is quite a story. Thank you again, I am not so alone after all.
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The same thing happened to me last week. I am 48. A man fell in love with me unexpectedly and he is 25. We both could feel our heart beats. I feel a very strong spiritual and emotional connection as well as a pure unconditional love towards this beautiful heart. I am also in a dilemma and don't know what to know. In my whole life I was waiting for this kind of love.
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I am 52 and he is 30. We have been together 2 years. I love him. Simple as that. Not sure if it will work, but right now we are so happy together; I am going to enjoy the ride for as far as it will take me. If and when it ends, we will have great memories of joy and happiness. Some people never even get the opportunity to experience the joy and happiness we have right now. I am humble, and will cherish every moment. I wish the same for you.
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I'm basically in the same boat. I am 53 and started a fling with a 22 year old. Initially, all I was interested in was a fling. But very quickly, I developed feelings for him. We are no longer together. Like your story, mine is like a sad love story. I know with every fiber of my being that he is "the one", but he wants a family and I cannot give that to him. The worse part is that we work together. I go to bed thinking about him and I wake up thinking about him. The fling was amazing. He's way more mature than his numerical age. Even though I know this relationship cannot work out, I cannot get him out of my head or my heart. I feel like I'm in hell.
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Kittyhawkee.......are you still in the relationship with the man who's 30 years younger?
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Im 27 and my fren's lil bro who is keeps telling me he is in love with me and is willing to do any thing. im getting confused cuz he makes me feel young n i like that.BUt he is still too young n i dont want to be the bad guy.
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Hi, I'm 41, happily married since nearly 10 years with the perfect husband, we're in love with each other, we have no kids because I never wanted them. the problem is, I am falling in love with a 27 year old boy. He's sweet, he talks to me (I never really clicked with young people, especially when I was young too, so this is really new to me), he makes me feel special. My husband makes me feel really special, too, so it's not like anything is missing from our marriage... maybe it's just that I have lived a somehow secluded life so far and I love to feel that I'm not invisible to other men... I do not flirt with this guy and am just waiting to see if he is really interested in me, I don't want to rush things because it would be ridiculous, but I'm starting to daydream about him and I'm worried... I would never want to make my husband suffer, but I really don't want to look the other way if something beatiful comes my way... I know this sounds very selfish, but my husband and me we always talk and joke about things like these, we say all the time we're not possessive, we're not jealous, that everybody needs their space and privacy... I'm very, very confused, I don't know what to do. Would it be better not to start anything with this younger guy so that no one gets hurt? But I fear that I will regret all my life not to have taken the chance to live a romance...
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IM IN THE SAME BOAT .IM SO IN LOVE WITH GUY ,HE EVERY THING I EVER WANTED IN A MAN .I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ??
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