I fell in love with much younger man

Stay faithful to your husband, say sorry pray forgiveness, and stay faithful. Do not cheat! I only read that your married and are with someone else, I stopped there. Don't cheat. Bad idea! No matter how you look at it. If I'm not cheating you shouldn't either. Boy I now I have trust issues.

Thallya, I can totally relate your situation as mine is almost identical. 47 and engaged to a 25 year old but my goodness is he mature for his age. I was married for 20 years to an emotionally unavailable and abusive man. It is amazing to be treated like I never imagined that I would be or felt that I deserved. He's such a good man that loves me incredibly and is fine with the fact that we will never have children of our own. I never expected to ever fall in love ever again let alone with a man 20 years younger but here I am and I'm the happiest that I've ever been. I know it's been a year since you've posted but I sure hope you are doing well and finally had your beautiful wedding day.

Thank you for sharing this - I really really appreciate it. I am 48 and met a man that is 27, about 6 weeks ago. I was single and happy and out celebrating Pride with friends. I noticed a very intriguing and handsome younger man. Every time I looked in his direction, his eyes were on me. I eventually invited him over and we ended up dancing all night together. It was wonderful and I assumed it was just one fabulous night of fun and letting loose. I had absolutely no inclination that he would want to see me again, however, he kept in touch and we started going on dates. I was completely taken by surprise with how deeply we connected on a psychological/emotional level. Our conversations are super exciting, have depth, and it feels like our souls have connected. I feel like we both bring something to the table, and learn from each other. We are both 'givers' and are equally generous with each other. The chemistry we have is bananas. I am so grateful to have connected with him. He has invited me to a family wedding in Mexico that will take place at the beginning of December and he is really excited to introduce me to his family and friends. I am planning on going with him and I am aware that there may be some judgement. I have faced this already with a very close friend of mine. Most friends/family have actually been quite supportive, especially after they meet my guy and can see for themselves how kind/funny/engaging and likable he is. I do think about the possibility that being with an older woman may be something that holds him back but we are both very much enjoying this time and experience together. I have fallen for him! If the time comes that the relationship has run its course, we will deal. I do not want to live in fear and worry about this. The reality in life is that everything changes and losses are inevitable. So, I will enjoy this fully now and not let fear get in the way of this most beautiful experience.

I’m in the same situation. But, we are going to take it public. We have to. I just can’t live without him nor can he live without me. We are both getting a divorce and going for it. Neither of our not soon enough exes know anything right now. We are in the filing stages. My husband doesn’t even know I’m filing in April. He has already filed his papers. We just can’t stay away from each other. We are very much in love and we treat each other like a queen and king. Nothing like my husband treats me. I absolutely will never allow anyone to treat me like he does again. I’m also very attractive and always have been, and he is drop dead gorgeous. 6’5” dark and beautiful. We fit like a pair of cashmere gloves. We know it’s going to be hard for some family members, and we have talked all about their possible reactions. But in the end, we know that this relationship we have, this lifetime opportunity, this beautiful fun loving amazing precious relationship is just too wonderful to let go. It’s not a community thing! It’s not a community decision! It’s ours and we love it more than we can even verbalize. I’m hoping you both find a way to stay together and go for it ALL! ♥️

When it comes to love, age means nothing. Spiritually, I believe in a positive energy that flows within two people, each being their twin flame.

I’m from India. I met my husband eleven years ago on a dating app, and I flew to America just to be with him. He had turned 21 years old, and I was 43. Upon looking at him, my instincts told me that he was the one. There was definitely a positive energy flowing through us. It became clear that we were destined to be together. We made love like never before. After a month, I was carrying his child. We got married a few months after that.

My husband is now 32, and I am 54. Our love is still strong. We have five children.

When it comes to love, age means nothing. Spiritually, I believe in a positive energy that flows within two people, each being their twin flame.

I’m from India. I met my husband eleven years ago on a dating app, and I flew to America just to be with him. He had turned 21 years old, and I was 43. Upon looking at him, my instincts told me that he was the one. There was definitely a positive energy flowing through us. It became clear that we were destined to be together. We made love like never before. After a month, I was carrying his child. We got married a few months after that.

My husband is now 32, and I am 54. Our love is still strong. We have five children.

When it comes to love, age means nothing. Spiritually, I believe in a positive energy that flows within two people, each being their twin flame.

I’m from India. I met my husband eleven years ago on a dating app, and I flew to America just to be with him. He had turned 21 years old, and I was 43. Upon looking at him, my instincts told me that he was the one. There was definitely a positive energy flowing through us. It became clear that we were destined to be together. We made love like never before. After a month, I was carrying his child. We got married a few months after that.

My husband is now 32, and I am 54. Our love is still strong. We have five children.

When it comes to love, age means nothing. Spiritually, I believe in a positive energy that flows within two people, each being their twin flame.

I’m from India. I met my husband eleven years ago on a dating app, and I flew to America just to be with him. He had turned 21 years old, and I was 43. Upon looking at him, my instincts told me that he was the one. There was definitely a positive energy flowing through us. It became clear that we were destined to be together. We made love like never before. After a month, I was carrying his child. We got married a few months after that.

My husband is now 32, and I am 54. Our love is still strong. We have five children.

Hi all, I'm turning 49 and fell in love with a colleague, who is more than years younger. He doesn't know about it, I'm too shy to make any move already in normal situations, imagine with a much younger colleague. Plus, I'm married. I live my husband and I would never (although never say never, I know) leave him. I started wondering if love is really a monogamist relationship or it has so different grades that even when you have a stable companion about whom you care a lot, still some other missing aspects attract you to another "twin soul". Anyway, besides all these obstacles, there is also the fact he seems to be very shy (based on his behaviour in strictly work topics) - on top of being younger and a colleague. One and half years ago I had the courage to compliment him about his presentation and he thanked me back for being interested and that it had been his pleasure. I hoped I was going to forget or find out he is one of those narcissistic self centered creatures. But he just seems perfect, as I wish each man would be: intelligent, engaged, private, modest and so on. So I keep falling.. in love. I don't do any move besides trying to cross paths in the office, as I'm scared he would be shocked that I dared something. I don't even have occasions to check if he might actually like me. Sometimes I think he notices me when we cross path, but then nothing happens, although I can't see how a shy person can make something happen out of nothing (for the ones who believe in this sort of things, we are a terrible combination being aquarius and virgin zodiac signs, both being very shy).
I've read all your posts and I really like your energy, way of supporting each other in an honest way.
So here I am with my story
Any advise how to move things, at least to understand of there is any chance, are highly appreciated..:)
Thank you

Hi all, I'm turning 49 and fell in love with a colleague, who is more than years younger. He doesn't know about it, I'm too shy to make any move already in normal situations, imagine with a much younger colleague. Plus, I'm married. I live my husband and I would never (although never say never, I know) leave him. I started wondering if love is really a monogamist relationship or it has so different grades that even when you have a stable companion about whom you care a lot, still some other missing aspects attract you to another "twin soul". Anyway, besides all these obstacles, there is also the fact he seems to be very shy (based on his behaviour in strictly work topics) - on top of being younger and a colleague. One and half years ago I had the courage to compliment him about his presentation and he thanked me back for being interested and that it had been his pleasure. I hoped I was going to forget or find out he is one of those narcissistic self centered creatures. But he just seems perfect, as I wish each man would be: intelligent, engaged, private, modest and so on. So I keep falling.. in love. I don't do any move besides trying to cross paths in the office, as I'm scared he would be shocked that I dared something. I don't even have occasions to check if he might actually like me. Sometimes I think he notices me when we cross path, but then nothing happens, although I can't see how a shy person can make something happen out of nothing (for the ones who believe in this sort of things, we are a terrible combination being aquarius and virgin zodiac signs, both being very shy).
I've read all your posts and I really like your energy, way of supporting each other in an honest way.
So here I am with my story
Any advise how to move things, at least to understand of there is any chance, are highly appreciated..:)
Thank you