I fell in love with much younger man

Been with mine since October... I turned 48 in March, he'll be 30 in September. But I've decided it's time to end it. I don't want to do the childish things he wants to do any longer. His friends are all in their 20s, and while I like them, I just can't hang out and get ridiculously drunk any more, it's not my thing. I want to eat in nice restaurants and things of that ilk. It was fun while it lasted!

I'm in love with a younger man... He's 21 and I'm 36. At first it was just a fling but then I grew feelings for him. I believe he cares for me but he tells me that we could never be a couple or nobody could ever know. Yet everytime I try to leave he fights for me? I'm so lost and confused as to what to do. When he's with me I'm happier then I've ever been in life. I really love him and know we could be great together but he doesn't because of the age difference... Any suggestions on how to remove myself from this situation?

Wow, this is amazing, i hope its working out for you two. I am a 33 yr old 7 months pregnant with a 21 year old father. I go through so much backlash from other women primarily. I have no family alive and wonder what I should do.

u know that the only people that matter in this love is just the two of u ! if love exists then there is soul recognition from other life times and healing to be done in this, so be brave and selfish ! it is ur Karma u are healing with ur united love why poison it with the shallow oppinions of others less evolved spiritually and cannot understnd that love is of th soul eternal powerful magic.

I ALSO LOVE A MUCH YOUNGER MAN. IT IS LIKE A SAD LOVE STORY . THERE ARE 28 YEARS BE-TWEEN US, HE IS 29 AND I, 57. IT JUST HAPPENED. IT IS SO SAD TO US BOTH. HE EVEN SHUT ME TOTALLY OUT FOR A MONTH, THINKING HE COULD JUST FORGET ME... THAT DIDNT WORK.... YESTERDAY WITH HIM WAS LIKE NO OTHER TO REUNITE..... WE SIMPLY CLICK ON EVERY ASPECT OF OUR LIFE.

Well, a few months later, my 29 year old (I'm 48) is living with me.  It's going great.  Yea, we don't eat in nice restaurants, but he is so supportive of me emotionally and helps me around the apartment, drives me to my chiropractor and he's just so sweet and kind.  I've really gotten to know him, his friends and family accept me and nowhere cares about the age difference, including the two of us.  He claims he doesn't want kids (that could change, obviously), but I've decided to take it one day at a time and enjoy this guy.  The sex is incredible, he is fun and funny and I just love him!

 why do people find it so easy to critisize the love between two people that just have the misfortune to be born out of time with each other what differance should age make to the healing power of their love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

oh lord, send me ur phone number, id like to talk about this with u

its only society that puts age between u , the love dispells it. and in the end the age wont matter only the love. and this is as it should be.

what ! u want to know how we arrange before we are born to meet and interact with the people we have loved many times before . a good book to read it 'only love is real ' by brian weiss hypnotherapist

no follow your heart and if he feels the same way even better.

As i was searching for women like me who fell in love with younger men , i came across this web site and this topic and thanks to that, i don't feel like im in a one in a million kind a situation anymore. As men have had that chance to be with younger women without caring what other people say, i think women have that right to do the same thing. Because if a woman can love a younger man i think that means she is passionate and full of love. A woman has a lot of emotional or sexual perspective that she can share. If that young man can satisfy that woman, he is lucky for that! In my situation, there is also a big gap in social scale, we're like from different words. I'm 24 and he is 17! First i have to wait for him to be eighteen anyway.. I'm a mature woman- at least i think so- but it's nothing about age or how mature you are; it is definitely about the chemical attraction and it is also something that you just can't control!.. As a "perfect guy" means nothing to you, a young man comes and you just can't help thinking about him, and desiring his touches and kisses all over your body.. To make a relationship like this going on, i guess woman should have a real good self confidence..

 

I am in my late thirties married but haven't been living with my husband for a few years. My feelings for my husband has changed and there's no pasion anymore he's like a friend. There's this young very handsome young neighbour that has been checking me out for months now and I am trying to ignore him. I don't know how this could have happened but I am hopelessly in love with this guy that's about 10 years younger and has not had a relationship with him besides casual neighbour conversations. I am very faithfull and never ever would have imagined something like this to happen to me and it's making me sick. All this to say is that falling in love has no age no time no conditions and doesn't make you a monster. People that has never been there might not understand. I so wish a relationship could be between us I don't care I feel so in love that I don't care about anything else....

Enjoy your love and don't let anybody ruine it, it is so rare!

 

 

its ok... for as long as you are happy together,be proud of it...take every chance,i envy those people who are not afraid of showing the world no matter how big their age difference is...

I have been reading all of these posts and they have helped me to realize that there are hundreds of women out there who have found out that love has no boundries.  Society is what is destroying the world and also our power to love which was a gift to us when we were created.  Men have broken the barrier but the more women get educated, independent and free-spirited, the more we are becoming liberated.  The big question is when will we be free to be happy with whom we want to be with.  I will shock the world if they knew that the man that I love is 33 years younger than I am.  He is 36 so figure it out.  We have had our ups and downs and now we are talking again.  We live in different countries but we talk.   We are talking to each other like old times.  I have tried to forget him but it seems that I can't.  He even wants me to come and live in the same country near to him.  He was furious to know that I was in his country recently and I did not contact him.  He is not married but has two children who do not live with him because of his job and broken relationships.  So he is surely not looking for more.  Well, that's my life.  I am trying my best to forget him. Now pass your judgement but don't be too harsh.