so i have started having sex with my boyfriend and was terrified of the pain. so when my boyfriend took my virginity i felt nothing. so when i asked my friend she said her's hurt a lot. i felt nothing ecept for when it felt like he was pushing so hard agfainst a wall in me. so the second time of having sex it hurt more cuz he was trying harding. so after he left i looked up the hymen and it said it was skin around the opening....i didnt have that when he took my virginity the first time. so i possibly could have broke it from before right?im just confused. does it hurt because hes pushing to hard? or does he need to break something else?is he going deep enough is the hymen farther than what i think it is. because my friends told me it was exsrushiating pain for them but the only pain i felt was when he was hitting what i thought was the wall of my insides.
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You may have already broken your own hymen by way of intense excersing, bike riding, usage of a tampon etc......
Or your hymen could have been very thin and easily manipulated, when he penetrated you for the first time he could have ruptured it and you would not even have known.
Some times it hurts, sometimes you bleed, sometimes the pain is so incredible that you have to keep trying and not be successful on the first or second attempt. Sometimes it is so thick that it has to be surgically snipped to allow for intercourse.
The "wall" that you say he's hitting is your cervix. If you put your own finger inside of your vagina and just push it in a bit, you will feel the beginning of your cervix. It should feel hard at the point of where your finger is. When the penis is introduced into your vagina, what you feel with your finger is what the penis is hitting.
You must learn to not listen so intently to your friends. Not that they are lying to you, but every girl is different. What hurt your friend did not hurt you.
I hope you are taking some kind of birth control. Not to scare you but it is very easy to get pregnant the first time out.
Or your hymen could have been very thin and easily manipulated, when he penetrated you for the first time he could have ruptured it and you would not even have known.
Some times it hurts, sometimes you bleed, sometimes the pain is so incredible that you have to keep trying and not be successful on the first or second attempt. Sometimes it is so thick that it has to be surgically snipped to allow for intercourse.
The "wall" that you say he's hitting is your cervix. If you put your own finger inside of your vagina and just push it in a bit, you will feel the beginning of your cervix. It should feel hard at the point of where your finger is. When the penis is introduced into your vagina, what you feel with your finger is what the penis is hitting.
You must learn to not listen so intently to your friends. Not that they are lying to you, but every girl is different. What hurt your friend did not hurt you.
I hope you are taking some kind of birth control. Not to scare you but it is very easy to get pregnant the first time out.
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thr r chances that ur hymen was already broken..evn bfr the previous attmpt..its not unnatural.
fr smeppl it will not be dat painful..cz of the elasticity.
may be u belong to dat grp..
but the pain can be the indication dat the hymen is being broken..hymen is actaully deep dwn thr..so may be u lost ur virginity only in ur secnd attmpt..:-P
fr smeppl it will not be dat painful..cz of the elasticity.
may be u belong to dat grp..
but the pain can be the indication dat the hymen is being broken..hymen is actaully deep dwn thr..so may be u lost ur virginity only in ur secnd attmpt..:-P
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You might've broken your hymen before even having sex by an everyday activity or you might've broken it the first time but you were so caught up you didn't feel it. The second time, maybe he was pushing in too hard or was hitting your cervix. The pain varies from girl to girl because some have a thin hymen and some have a thick one.
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