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I don't think you should try to put on weight for this. I doubt that will help. There is little you can do to speed up what you are waiting for and I don't believe being flat is keeping the boys away. There are plenty of boys and men who adore tiny boobs.
My wife was over 20 when we got married and we used to joke about her aaa bandaid bras. Actually it was her tiny boobs that I found so attractive.
Do things you enjoy and have fun, boys will begin to discover you.
If you Google "the breast fairy" you will find some fun stories. Mostly about a comedy routine Bill Cosby did about his daughter sitting by the window every night waiting for the breast fairy to come. There is a lot of Bill's stuff on YouTube. I don't know if that one is there.
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hey rebecca ! I would get my breast checked if I were you. Having NO breasts in your twenties is not unheard of, but it is still quite rare . Don't worry ! You will be fine .:-)
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omg what was the hormone that you wasn't producing?... I am in the same situation. Im 21 No Boobs & never had a menstrual. thank God I have a loving Boyfriend that sticks by me with my flat chest smh.
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I'm really quite glad you made this. Makes me feel so much better. I'm 21 and I think I fit a 32AAA/30AA. You can actually by bras for a 32AAA. To be honest I generally get a 32AA just to make it look like I have something and to ensure you can't see the outline of my nipples through my clothes (it's not always the look your going for).
I've kind of accepted it, but it's mainly clothing issues. Finding a bikini top that doesn't move is awful - they all seem to be designed with breasts stopping it from riding up; can't wear loose low cut tops as you can just see everything (nothing to see, but still embarrassing); evening dresses have padded structured areas for your boobs which is obviously fake as you have no cleavage. Will never get surgery though. Just the idea of voluntarily putting myself through that. I have to say though, i'm going to be massively disappointing if they don't get bigger if I have kid.
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yes you are normal breast size is determined by genetics and you diet, i find girls with small breast (smaller the better)
very attractive but if it bothers you then you may want to get breast implants
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I've lived with the humiliation of no breasts all my life, I'm 45, thin, not married. Who'd want to marry me anyway. I wear padded bras and high necklines all the time to hide it. I can't understand why some women more thin that I am can have more breast than I do. Reading this I see so many suffer like I do but it doesn't take away the shame. So many nice clothes I can't wear because it will show up what's lacking. There should be something besides dangerous surgery to help. I've tried pills, cream, exercise, birth control pills - all have done nothing.
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Allie, I feel so bad for you. There IS no shame unless YOU choose to feel that way. Think of the advantages you have. You can wear low cut clothes that tease the hell out of men without the fear of anything slipping out. You probably don't need to bother wearing a bra at all. Do you know how sexy that can be? I guess you don't. You are the one who is making YOU feel bad. You have the ability to attract plenty of men who don't like being lied to. I would be likely to lose my infatuation with a woman who I was attracted to if I found she was being untruthful by wearing padding to make her look like someone she is not. I would be sooo attracted to someone who says here I am, this is it.
Do you want some guy who only looks at you for the size of your breasts?
Get out there and enjoy life. A smile and positive attitude is the most attractive thing you can have.
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I happen to love small chests. big is over rated. you might be small but my guess is your mighty.i would bet you make up for size in other ways
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wanted to say a huge thanks to karl and the other people who were encouraging about loving yourself b/c the societal definition of "normal" is distorted.......i'm 22 and have been looking around for a long time trying to figure out something to do for myself b/c a lot of people i know make fun of me and my girlfriend for how flat we are. I've always found flat-chested women attractive but have let my own shape effect my view of myself to my detriment. from a lesbian the rest of you, live with it, love it, because there's nothing more attractive than a woman who is confident in her natural beauty.
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same here. Even if I could afford it my family would probably disown me if I got a boob job or any kind of hormone replacement therapy because of this because to everyone else it's "not a real problem." I just hate being in my 20s and being mistaken for a child (regularly). I think I'm going to ask my doctor about any kind of hormone test or replacement or anything next time I have a check-up.
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