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Hi. I am 25 years old. I married a guy with a 5 years old son. I have no kids and I don`t know how to deal with it. I like the kid, it`s just that I am not so sure I am ready for taking care of a kid. We can`t go out like other couples. First we have to take care of the kid, to put him to bed and things like that. How to deal with that?

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Hi. My boyfriend has a 4 years old son and I love him. He is so funny. Kids are great. You should be happy. You are never lonely when there is a kid somewhere in the house. Kids are not problems. You just need more time. I guess you should spend more time with the kid, to get to know each other and become friends. You can`t be his Mom, but you can be his friend.
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not only is this post several years old.

I disagree with the parents as "friends"

I've seen where it can work, however I've also seen it where the kid takes advantage of your openness.

step parents have it a little rough.
being a caring adult influence in a childs life should be emphasized just a little bit more than being their friend.

I have been complimented on the way I talk and relate to kids by several of my friends (their parents or aunt). the same general "human respect" that I feel is due to each person.
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