hi, i have just turned 13 and i cant have an orgasm its been like 2 weeks 2 a month all i do is just cum and finish i dont know if it is because stress because i just started a new job or what ever ,help me please. :$ :'(
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Hey dude - maybe you can explain a little more. Did you just start masturbating, or have you been doing it for a while. You said all you do is cum - do mean you ejaculate semen without having an orgasm? It is VERY unusual for guys to ejaculate without having an orgasm, ESPECIALLY at you age...almost unheard of.
Give us a little more information about about what you are doing, and what happens and I bet we can give you some pretty good answers.
Good luck with your new job!!!
Give us a little more information about about what you are doing, and what happens and I bet we can give you some pretty good answers.
Good luck with your new job!!!
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yeah Ive been doing it for a long time its just the last cupple week i have not been having an orgasm
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So, you're saying that when you masturbate you are still ejaculating semen, but there is no feeling of orgasm that goes along with it...is that correct?
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also is there any other people that will help me with this im starting to get worred ,you would be to ! :-(
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Can you describe the sensations you experience when ejaculating?
Ejaculation consists of several contractions in the penis with an emission - sometimes forcible - of semen, a milky white sticky fluid. Typical amount produced is around 5-10ml.
The contractions are the orgasm, and feel extremely pleasant. As far as I know, it is not possible to have an ejaculation without these pleasurable feelings, so I wonder if what you are thinking of as "ejaculation" is actually something else.. typical would be a slight emission or "dribble" of pre-cum, a clear sticky lubricant with antacid qualities.
It is typical to prduce a few drops of pre-cum prior to truly ejaculating. Some people produce quite a lot of it, prior to orgasm or any time they are aroused.
So. Exactly what happens and how does it feel when you are masturbating and ejaculating? Details, please.
Ejaculation consists of several contractions in the penis with an emission - sometimes forcible - of semen, a milky white sticky fluid. Typical amount produced is around 5-10ml.
The contractions are the orgasm, and feel extremely pleasant. As far as I know, it is not possible to have an ejaculation without these pleasurable feelings, so I wonder if what you are thinking of as "ejaculation" is actually something else.. typical would be a slight emission or "dribble" of pre-cum, a clear sticky lubricant with antacid qualities.
It is typical to prduce a few drops of pre-cum prior to truly ejaculating. Some people produce quite a lot of it, prior to orgasm or any time they are aroused.
So. Exactly what happens and how does it feel when you are masturbating and ejaculating? Details, please.
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when i used to have an orgasm i knew just before i had one i was about to have one but now i get the thing when im just about to have one but i don't get one
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Hi hoothoot,
I know exactly what you're feeling, I once ejaculated without feeling any orgasm. At least I only had it once it felt like a real anti-climax without the orgasm, I suppose thats what you're feeling too.
I was really worried I had something wrong at the time and did a little bit of research.
From what I found, the orgasm feeling is psychological rather than physical. The more anticipation of the orgasm and the more stimulation, either from a female or yourself affects the quality of the orgasm.
I can only suggest trying out as many different stimulation techniques and/or foreplay to improve the situation.
Hope I've helped a little. Let me know what you think. :-)
I know exactly what you're feeling, I once ejaculated without feeling any orgasm. At least I only had it once it felt like a real anti-climax without the orgasm, I suppose thats what you're feeling too.
I was really worried I had something wrong at the time and did a little bit of research.
From what I found, the orgasm feeling is psychological rather than physical. The more anticipation of the orgasm and the more stimulation, either from a female or yourself affects the quality of the orgasm.
I can only suggest trying out as many different stimulation techniques and/or foreplay to improve the situation.
Hope I've helped a little. Let me know what you think. :-)
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i cant see docter im 13 .but what your say is i have to imagin sex or somethng whilst i masterbait
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Thats completely up to you. It depends on your moral stance on this or if you've got any religious views.
Just get yourself more excited, if that is done by imagining sex and you're ok with doing that then give it a try.
Just get yourself more excited, if that is done by imagining sex and you're ok with doing that then give it a try.
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I'm the same "guest" that answered here on the 26/11/09.
I see in another post you've made that your cum is sticky and clear. (Don't be sad about this.It's OK.)
I reckon you probably aren't very far along in puberty, and you just need to give it a bit more time. Everyone likes the feeling of an orgasm, but what I suggest is give it a break. Stop masturbating for a few days. Say, 4 days. Or 3, or 7, it's up to you. But set a limit that you can achieve, and stick to it. For that time, don't think about sex too much, find something else to occupy yourself. Interested in sports? Swimming? Do more of that. Something physical, anyway, even if its just playing outside with friends.
After the set time and only when you find yourself turned on, try rubbing one out. Don't put yourself under any pressure, just enjoy what you're doing, see how it goes.
General tips: Only masturbate when you are turned on. Take your time; it's not a race. Don't rub too hard or hold it too tight. Make sure you are not rushed, have privacy, have a tissue handy ready to catch it/clean up.
I see in another post you've made that your cum is sticky and clear. (Don't be sad about this.It's OK.)
I reckon you probably aren't very far along in puberty, and you just need to give it a bit more time. Everyone likes the feeling of an orgasm, but what I suggest is give it a break. Stop masturbating for a few days. Say, 4 days. Or 3, or 7, it's up to you. But set a limit that you can achieve, and stick to it. For that time, don't think about sex too much, find something else to occupy yourself. Interested in sports? Swimming? Do more of that. Something physical, anyway, even if its just playing outside with friends.
After the set time and only when you find yourself turned on, try rubbing one out. Don't put yourself under any pressure, just enjoy what you're doing, see how it goes.
General tips: Only masturbate when you are turned on. Take your time; it's not a race. Don't rub too hard or hold it too tight. Make sure you are not rushed, have privacy, have a tissue handy ready to catch it/clean up.
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