So as you may know I'm pretty messed up, well, VERY messed up; my relationship breaking down in late March, and she is now going out with someone else.
Well, I haven't got over her yet, she doesn't realise how much she meant to me.... But I guess she didn't really care much for me.
The other day she had to come over to mine cos my parents are friends with hers, i wasn't awkward, I just had to put on a brave façade as if I'm over her like shes over me, but inside i was all over the place.
Then, to almost rub salt in the wound, she sent me a text afterwards saying,
"thanks for the nice night :-) it was nice to see you. Xxx"
Alost saying, I know you still love me, so I'll just mess with you even more by saying that, and make you think that I still have feeling for you.
I can't help it though, I still love her and whatever I try and do to get over her doesn't work.
I can only really clutch a straws, all I keep thinking about is how she actually ended it with me, she went on a weeks' holiday, and then when she came back she said "something changed". Can she really lose everything she felt for me in a week??
I don't care if you give me the harsh reality guys, I just need someone to talk to about it, because it's killing me inside, to be honest.
Thanks,
Will
Well, I haven't got over her yet, she doesn't realise how much she meant to me.... But I guess she didn't really care much for me.
The other day she had to come over to mine cos my parents are friends with hers, i wasn't awkward, I just had to put on a brave façade as if I'm over her like shes over me, but inside i was all over the place.
Then, to almost rub salt in the wound, she sent me a text afterwards saying,
"thanks for the nice night :-) it was nice to see you. Xxx"
Alost saying, I know you still love me, so I'll just mess with you even more by saying that, and make you think that I still have feeling for you.
I can't help it though, I still love her and whatever I try and do to get over her doesn't work.
I can only really clutch a straws, all I keep thinking about is how she actually ended it with me, she went on a weeks' holiday, and then when she came back she said "something changed". Can she really lose everything she felt for me in a week??
I don't care if you give me the harsh reality guys, I just need someone to talk to about it, because it's killing me inside, to be honest.
Thanks,
Will
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Hey I don't know if you are still wanting a reply, but i'll put one just in case =)
I'm a 22 year old girl, and i've been through something very similar only a couple of years ago. I felt the same as you - very confused, thinking "Why did they say something like that??"
She may have said it because there are some lingering feelings that she just hasn't admitted to. However, it IS possible that she said it as a friend, because I know very well that exes can still be friends, no matter WHAT has happened in the past! If she sees you as a friend in any way, then it is simply her saying that it was honestly nice to see you, and she had a nice time. But sometimes it's hard to remember that the other person still feels in love with you, and that it can confuse the hell out of them.
As for her giving the reason "something changed" for breaking up with you, I don't know. I'm assuming you asked what she meant, so what did she say? It may be that her feelings had already begun to change towards you, but she just hadn't shown it. But yes, it is very harsh of her to simply say it so suddenly, especially if she didn't explain her reasons!
And finally, as for getting over her, it may take time. I know from experience and from friends that it can take anything from a few weeks to a few years to get over someone, no matter how strongly you felt about them. But it will happen! =)
I'm a 22 year old girl, and i've been through something very similar only a couple of years ago. I felt the same as you - very confused, thinking "Why did they say something like that??"
She may have said it because there are some lingering feelings that she just hasn't admitted to. However, it IS possible that she said it as a friend, because I know very well that exes can still be friends, no matter WHAT has happened in the past! If she sees you as a friend in any way, then it is simply her saying that it was honestly nice to see you, and she had a nice time. But sometimes it's hard to remember that the other person still feels in love with you, and that it can confuse the hell out of them.
As for her giving the reason "something changed" for breaking up with you, I don't know. I'm assuming you asked what she meant, so what did she say? It may be that her feelings had already begun to change towards you, but she just hadn't shown it. But yes, it is very harsh of her to simply say it so suddenly, especially if she didn't explain her reasons!
And finally, as for getting over her, it may take time. I know from experience and from friends that it can take anything from a few weeks to a few years to get over someone, no matter how strongly you felt about them. But it will happen! =)
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