My girlfriend killed herself on the 14th October 2012 and I dont know what to do?

Hi Woes,

Please find yourself someone to talk to.  Maybe a counselor or therapist.  Talk this out, don't keep it bottled up.

DO NOT blame yourself.  You can and will rehash what happened forever.  You could not have prevented this from happening.  Sooner or later she would have likely found a way to succeed.

I know it may seem harsh.  I too have lost someone I cared about to suicide.  You never forget that pain but you can learn to deal with it.

Good luck.

 

 

First of all and most importantly, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! I can't stress that enough. I know it's something you will think for a long time but it's not. You need to get professional help, a therapist, counselor or psychiatrist. It will take a long time to overcome the sense of helplessness and self hate and loss, but it will be worth it. You will be able to live without her but you will never forget her. She wouldn't want you to die because of her, she'd want you to carry on living and be strong for her.

u shouldn't feel guilty it probably ha nothing to do with u . so many times i have though about committing suicide but i wouldn't want my boyfriend or friends to ever feel as if it were their fault and it dosn't mean that i  don't love them but everyone has secrets and problems taht they don't want anyone to know and sometimes death feels like an easy way out.But don't blamme yourself she would  of never have wanted you to do that and if it were my boyfriend i would want him to move on and be happy but i would always want to be remembered too. so move on but remember her.

NAH BRO f**k THAT JUST GO HAVE SEX, GANGSTER.