My girlfriend one day came over and her vagina was read and swollen but she was saying it wasnt when it was and she said it was itching a little bit but i dont know what to think if it was jsut random or she cheated because like 2 or 3 weeks before this happened she talked to her ex and i eve talked to him and they both had different stories on what happened that day. he said she wanted to hangout and she said he wanted her to hangout with him, he told me that she said she wouldn't tell me because i was going to be pissed at her. and i didnt figure she talked to him till i seen him on her snap chat . she said they talked for 3 days without me knowing and she wasnt even going to tell me because it wasn't a "big Deal" to her. im not sure what to think or even say to her. she swears she hasn't cheated or anything.
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Hi Guest,
If her vagina was red and swollen then it is either from an infection of some kind OR from a form of trauma. It could be from having sex OR maybe she's using some sort of "tool."
The different stories are a concern but maybe she really does think you'd get pissed and is covering it up.
As to her talking to the ex via Snapchat, the question to ask here is "why?" Are there kids involved here or some other reason she'd be talking to him? 3 days of talking to an "ex" is a LOT.
Basically what it boils down to is that you appear to have reason enough not to trust her. IF she really does love you and respects you then she'd admit the truth no matter what. Without trust the relationship is over.
Good luck.
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