I want to use lube during self-pleasuring but I don't know how to use it

Not precisely sure what you mean. Just adding lube should not affect anything to do with your virginity. Do you know where your gspot is? Do you understand your body? Or do you need help?

How do you masturbat at the moment?

Is retaining your hymen intact important to you? Then just use one finger. Or do you need more detail?

Use K-Y jelly on where you usually masturbate.

This is just a brief start, but I can give more information if you wish.

 

You can put lube on your fingers or on any objects you may use, if you have a dildo which is a rubber penis you can put it on that to help it go in and out better. The only way to feel your g spot is to use a curved vibrator or dildo, once you touch it you wont forget because I didnt and I like to stimulate it when I can.

Hi AleGab ........ I doubt you have a dildo, but if you used one it would most likely break your hymen.

It is absolutely not true that "The only way to feel your g spot is to use a curved vibrator or dildo". So many use their fingers to massage their g-spots. In fact, one finger can be sufficient, and can be done in such a way as to not rupture your hymen.

If you start using vibrators and dildos you may find that you end up relying on them, and that could affect you later on, especially when you get married. A man cannot compete with a vibrator.

The statement "once you touch it you wont forget because I didnt" is misleading because everyone is different, and what is one person's experience is not necessarily replicated in another.

Thank you and no I don't have a dildo because I am still 14 I will try what you told me

Hope you get on OK. Let me know if you need more help.

When I masturbate with no lube, my ejaculation hurts. What are the possible reasons?