Hi, I'm 22 years old and have not lost my virginity yet. It's something that I am extremely self conscious about (regardless of many of you that will tell me not to be) and do not intend on telling the person that I have sex with (eventually!!) that I'm a virgin. I've been on birth control for 2 years (previously I used tampons and haven't got my period since being on birth control), been fingered with slight bleeding, and have even gotten a pap smear (bled for around a day...not an enjoyable experience.) I was wondering if the boy will be able to tell if I'm a virgin, and if my hymen is already broken? Thanks!