I'm going to be 18 in two months and my mother is extremely strict. She doesn't want me to date! I'll be a legal adult shouldn't it be up to me to make that decision to date? I have a boyfriend and she knows about us but she says we're only friends, she doesn't consider us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. She's imposed these strict rules saying that I can't see him everyday or every other week for that matter. It's the summer, and I hate not being able to see my boyfriend. I'm afraid that this might put a strain on our relationship. I don't know what to do!
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It should definitely be your decision.. But she just doesn't want to see you grow up.
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Yes, it will indeed be your decsion to date or not. Your mother will always be your mother but you are only young once so you need to make your own descions and follow your own instincts. If she really loves you(which there is no doubt in my mind that she doesn't) then she will either get use to it or realize that THAT'S what you want.
But, even though this is something your mom will have to start living with, still keep her involved in your life and be there for her...let absolutely nothing come inbetween your relationship with your mother.
Goodluck & Godbless<3
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