So...I had sex with my boyfriend 14 days after my period(Two weeks ago) and I was due for it last week, and there was a little bit of blood - but that lasted for a day. Since then, I have been having these horrid pains in my abdomen, my breasts are tender, feel heavy and are more sensitive than usual. I'm constantly having to urinate, and my lower back hurts. I know for sure this isn't my period, because I don't get cramps or pains. I get exhausted and depressed.
Anyway, I took a test the day after my due period date, and it came out as negative, but these symptoms won't seem to go away. I've done a bit of research, and so far, I seem to be having a lot of pregnancy symptoms. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex, and I know it was stupid of me, but I just kind of let my hormones take control.
If I am pregnant, I have no idea how to tell my mom. We've talked about it since I've become a teenager, and she says that she'd support me in any decision I'd make, but it's easier said than done. I have talked to my boyfriend and he told me he's not going to be like our fathers (Who skipped out on the two of us as kids. His abused him, and mine just left). He told me he would stay with me, and that he loves the two of us - if I decided to keep it. He really wants me to get an abortion because we would be too young, and he feels terrible that I might be.
At this point, I just don't know. My mom put me on BC to regulate my period, but the day I was supposed to get it(The day before I started BC), there was blood. And, if I am...I can't take it anymore because it could harm the baby. What do I do? I'm going to take another test tomorrow...if it's positive, I'm definitely going to keep it, but I just don't know how to break it to my mom. She knows I am sexually active and that I fool around, but she doesn't know that I'm no longer a virgin....I don't want her to hate me...
Please help, I'm scared and confused and kind of alone. Do you think I could be? And if I am, how do I break it to my mom/family?
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Hi there..
I know how scary this can be ... i fell pregnant when i was 15 when i lost my virginity and it can be very scary ... your very lucky that you have a man that will support you and a mum that you can talk to ... if your close to your mum ... and im sure she loves you very much ... she will be mad ... not at you .. but at the situation.. she will be terrified because her baby will be having a baby ... it will be awkward and there will be tears... but if your as close as you seem within a week she will be picking out names for her new grand baby ... it will be a very confusing time and it will not come easy to you .. its a huge learning streak !
anyway .. there is very good chance you are ,.. from what you are describing .
i would try a pregnancy test again but maybe in a few days, and do it in the morning when you go to the bathroom first thing, because this is when your hormones are at its strongest. If its still negative and your symptoms persist, you need to see a doctor or even if it is positive you need to see a doctor ASAP !!
The little bit of blood you have experienced might be the result of implantation bleeding which occurs when the fertilized egg embeds itself into the uterine wall.. which will mean you are pregnant. But go to this website ok ... go to
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you will see different tabs up the top go to pregnancy and on that page you will find a week by week calender of pregnancy, this has great information and tips, i used this sight and it helped a lot and its a great load of vital information.
I hope everything turns out ok, Best wishes :)
p.s if you have any other questions please just ask.
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