Hey,
I'm almost 17 years and I have very weird puberty (to me at least).
I've had visible moustache (not strong, just visible) since like 12. I've had lots of underarm (pit or how you call) hair since that age too.
I'm 5"10 (~178cm) and pretty skinny. It's not possible for me to gain weight, if I eat a lot or nothing, I'm the same.
Pubic hair has been the same since ~13 and it's not that much but there are plenty. My testicles and my penis haven't grown, my penis erect is 4 inch erect. I havent ejaculated yet (can't of course..:/) and I look a bit younger, like 13-15.
My voice is sometimes higher or lower, I've figured out that when I wake up I should talk a lot before going to school so my voice gets a bit lower and that I don't have weird frequiences when I talk. I also have to make it a little bit lower so it sounds normal. I'm too embarassed to go to any school trips since there are many people looking older (or probably normal for their age - 17..).
I've been thinking lately about going to doctor and having those testosterone injections or whatever that is. But I don't want my mother to know about it, I was thinking about lieing to her that I need to ask him something else. I think that for many years I wake up with an erection (some days not) for no reason.
It's just so weird..I have had some signs at 12...and it sucks..I've been skipping school, going out less (I've also cut my hair so I look at bit younger. I looked normal for my age all until 15).
The only option I can think of is visiting a doctor but gosh..why does this happen. They say people that look younger live longer. I don't wanna live longer and remember how much things I missed when I was younger :S
Thanks!
I'm almost 17 years and I have very weird puberty (to me at least).
I've had visible moustache (not strong, just visible) since like 12. I've had lots of underarm (pit or how you call) hair since that age too.
I'm 5"10 (~178cm) and pretty skinny. It's not possible for me to gain weight, if I eat a lot or nothing, I'm the same.
Pubic hair has been the same since ~13 and it's not that much but there are plenty. My testicles and my penis haven't grown, my penis erect is 4 inch erect. I havent ejaculated yet (can't of course..:/) and I look a bit younger, like 13-15.
My voice is sometimes higher or lower, I've figured out that when I wake up I should talk a lot before going to school so my voice gets a bit lower and that I don't have weird frequiences when I talk. I also have to make it a little bit lower so it sounds normal. I'm too embarassed to go to any school trips since there are many people looking older (or probably normal for their age - 17..).
I've been thinking lately about going to doctor and having those testosterone injections or whatever that is. But I don't want my mother to know about it, I was thinking about lieing to her that I need to ask him something else. I think that for many years I wake up with an erection (some days not) for no reason.
It's just so weird..I have had some signs at 12...and it sucks..I've been skipping school, going out less (I've also cut my hair so I look at bit younger. I looked normal for my age all until 15).
The only option I can think of is visiting a doctor but gosh..why does this happen. They say people that look younger live longer. I don't wanna live longer and remember how much things I missed when I was younger :S
Thanks!
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OK, well it does sound like puberty's got a bit confused in you, so only fair you should be confused too.
I'd say it's a fair question, and you really do need to speak to a doctor to get an answer (I'm an experienced adult, not a medical professional).
I would hope that your mom would understand your desire to ask about your situation, so see no need to lie about it.
If she really is resistant to taking you, I'm afraid you're entitled to find out, and you may just have to make your own way down there.
Doctor patient confidentiality means there's no way the doc will be reporting to your mom.
Go check it out.
I'd say it's a fair question, and you really do need to speak to a doctor to get an answer (I'm an experienced adult, not a medical professional).
I would hope that your mom would understand your desire to ask about your situation, so see no need to lie about it.
If she really is resistant to taking you, I'm afraid you're entitled to find out, and you may just have to make your own way down there.
Doctor patient confidentiality means there's no way the doc will be reporting to your mom.
Go check it out.
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I'm the exact same, except 16. The doctor just told me that I was on my way, that was nearly 6 months ago now. I feel so out of place, there are kids from my street that I used to babysit and their voices have broken. It really is very distressing.
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Yeah, that's exactly what I don't wanna hear from a doctor - that I'm on my way. I knew that without special education.
Anyone that use those hormone patches or whatever doctors do?
Anyone that use those hormone patches or whatever doctors do?
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No, I don't think that you can ask and just be given them. My GP is useless I went three times. Most embarrassing moments of my life and at the end I thought, well ok. I suppose I'll have to wait. But after this long, well it is awful.
I don't think I need hormone shots, or whatever and that is the worst thing. That I can't help it. I honestly look like a 12 year old, it is only my height that makes me look older.
I feel like I've been waiting for so long. I feel so stupid when around girls, I mean what can I do? I'm just sick of having the "baby face". People always say " You have to be patient" " Everyone goes through puberty at different ages" But 16 and having a voice that can go as high as a 5 year old's is horrific. And it makes you so depressed. Basically watching while all your mates go off and get laid and you are just left there. :-(
Talk about getting it all out, eh? :s
I don't think I need hormone shots, or whatever and that is the worst thing. That I can't help it. I honestly look like a 12 year old, it is only my height that makes me look older.
I feel like I've been waiting for so long. I feel so stupid when around girls, I mean what can I do? I'm just sick of having the "baby face". People always say " You have to be patient" " Everyone goes through puberty at different ages" But 16 and having a voice that can go as high as a 5 year old's is horrific. And it makes you so depressed. Basically watching while all your mates go off and get laid and you are just left there. :-(
Talk about getting it all out, eh? :s
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I can't take this anymore..I've been reading over the internet, I can hardly smell and I have delayed puberty which most likely seems to be Kallmans syndrom. Gonna try to go to a doctor today.
Even though I have been through a lot of pain in my life, I'm a strong person. But I cry every day because of this and I can't see any reason why this is happening, I've never done anything bad in my life. From time to time, I just don't know how I will live and if things are gonna be ok..
Even though I have been through a lot of pain in my life, I'm a strong person. But I cry every day because of this and I can't see any reason why this is happening, I've never done anything bad in my life. From time to time, I just don't know how I will live and if things are gonna be ok..
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I really do know how you feel. The worst part for me was that I've got nothing wrong with me, so there is nothing I can do. The whole thing is that you are you, as stupid as it sounds, your world is personal to you. Like, everything revolves around you, that's just the way it is no matter who you are. Anyway, it feels like you are different and don't fit in, its like 6 billion people! Why me?! Its even worse when you are the only one! It really gets me down. I feel the same as you, I've had a good cry about it before, I know it doesn't help you, but at least there are others out there who are the same.
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