On 10/23 my girlfriend had her period, we were intimate without reaching orgasm on 11/6. On 11/15 she randomly had headache/stomachache/hurting eyes. 11/18 her nipples began to hurt. Is she possibly pregnant?
so far she 1.) hasn't had any food cravings, 2.)her nipples haven't darkened, 3.) i don't think she's been implanting, 4.)she hasn't been urinating more frequently, 5.)she tells me that she hasn't been too high, 6.)though she doesn't get much sleep.. she has been very fatigued, 7.) it's not time for her period yet, 8.) has craved one meal that is out of the norm, 9.) her nipples were not more dark than usual.
I know that this is a touchy subject, but how would we go about an abortion if, in fact, she was pregnant. We're still in college and I understand we should have used protection or shouldn't have done it at all. I'm just really scared and it's killing me.
so far she 1.) hasn't had any food cravings, 2.)her nipples haven't darkened, 3.) i don't think she's been implanting, 4.)she hasn't been urinating more frequently, 5.)she tells me that she hasn't been too high, 6.)though she doesn't get much sleep.. she has been very fatigued, 7.) it's not time for her period yet, 8.) has craved one meal that is out of the norm, 9.) her nipples were not more dark than usual.
I know that this is a touchy subject, but how would we go about an abortion if, in fact, she was pregnant. We're still in college and I understand we should have used protection or shouldn't have done it at all. I'm just really scared and it's killing me.
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There is a possibility that your gf is pregnant, but because you did not ejaculate inside of her, your chances drop dramatically. There is a great debate on whether or not pre cum or pre seminal fluid can indeed cause pregnancy.....some say it can while others say it can't. I am on the fence when it comes to this debate.
Your gf was already on her way to ovulating (or getting close to it) when you two were intimate. Conception happens when an egg is released (ovulation) which usually starts about 2 weeks after the FIRST day of her LAST period. I hope you were not depending on the old "pull out" method of birth control, your luck will run out eventually, and sadly enough, it may have already run it's course.
Your best bet at this juncture is to go to the Drug Store or shopping center, i.e. Walmart, K-Mart, Walgreens and get a Pregnancy Test. They run about 20 bucks and lots of times you get a 2 fer. There are some out there that can pick up the pregnancy hormone before a period is even missed. I would sit tight until she actually misses a period and then i would take the test.
As far as the abortion issue, it sounds like you have made up your minds on that subject, and that's ok. But why don't you wait and see if in fact she really is pregnant before you move into the next phase. There is nothing wrong with having an abortion and they are safe as long they are done by a professional and not in someones garage.
I have had 2 abortions, they were when i was much younger of course. If you need to talk privatley just let me know.
Your gf was already on her way to ovulating (or getting close to it) when you two were intimate. Conception happens when an egg is released (ovulation) which usually starts about 2 weeks after the FIRST day of her LAST period. I hope you were not depending on the old "pull out" method of birth control, your luck will run out eventually, and sadly enough, it may have already run it's course.
Your best bet at this juncture is to go to the Drug Store or shopping center, i.e. Walmart, K-Mart, Walgreens and get a Pregnancy Test. They run about 20 bucks and lots of times you get a 2 fer. There are some out there that can pick up the pregnancy hormone before a period is even missed. I would sit tight until she actually misses a period and then i would take the test.
As far as the abortion issue, it sounds like you have made up your minds on that subject, and that's ok. But why don't you wait and see if in fact she really is pregnant before you move into the next phase. There is nothing wrong with having an abortion and they are safe as long they are done by a professional and not in someones garage.
I have had 2 abortions, they were when i was much younger of course. If you need to talk privatley just let me know.
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Thank you for your input bbfeet9.
"pullling out" was not my intention as i was not even intending to orgasm inside of her (it was a tad bit too painful for me) do you recommend any particular pregnancy tests? i've posted this question on several health forums and i'm just so worried that we could be pregnant. we're both still at different respected universities. I know that she is driven towards education so much to the point where if i became a barrier, we would break up. How could we chat privately? I've not received an email from this website confirming that my account exists.
"pullling out" was not my intention as i was not even intending to orgasm inside of her (it was a tad bit too painful for me) do you recommend any particular pregnancy tests? i've posted this question on several health forums and i'm just so worried that we could be pregnant. we're both still at different respected universities. I know that she is driven towards education so much to the point where if i became a barrier, we would break up. How could we chat privately? I've not received an email from this website confirming that my account exists.
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