Im 23 and havnt had sex in a while now. Im worried im really tight so that when i do have sex he wont be able to go inside me and it will hurt. what can I do to help stetch (open) my vagina up. I tried using toys but tthey do hurt, also can i put a toy inside of me and leave it there a while to help open my vagina up ?
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The main thing to do hun is not to stress because that will make you tighter than you are. What toy did you use and did you use extra lubricant or was your vagina wet enough?
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I used an ann summers rabbit , it is quite big to be fair so may need a smaller one ot start with. I didnt use any lube becuase I get very wet easily so no problems there. I think getting stressed is making me tighter ...
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I would try some extra water based lubricant then take a nice relaxing bath when your alone in the house with maybe some jasmine oil and have a nice jasmine scented candle burning in your room as soon as you get out the bath and dried off in to your room lay on your bed and masturbate as normal when you feel your ready and fully relaxed put some lubricant on your rabbit spread your knees wide apart and slowly try again hun.
You will get there its just about relaxation because if you thing it is going to hurt you will be tensed up and it will hurt and be tight :-)
You will get there its just about relaxation because if you thing it is going to hurt you will be tensed up and it will hurt and be tight :-)
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