I need help badly!!!! okay my bf spermed in his hand then he wiped it of on me sweatshirt... then about 5 mins later he fingered me.. about 1 1/2 weeks after that i got on the depo shot.. i started getting my signs of my period but they went away! i gained some weight to... am i pregnant????!!!!???? plx help i am to the point where im crying at night praying im not prego.. i would buy a test but i cant have my mom know about anything! help plz!!!!! :'(
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Hi honey! As long as there was NO sperm inside the vaginal canal you are NOT pregnant! Lets look at the worst case scenario OK?
1. The sperm survived on his fingers - which would have already been weakend somewhat by air and being rubbed off!
2. Any sperm would then have to swim up your vaginal wall - where there is natural secretions thats main goal is to stop invaders.
3. Then whatever sperm made it through that MAJOR event, have to go through the mother of all barriers - the Cervical canal which is coated in a thick jelly like substance!
4. THEN they have to swim through teh abyss of the uterus and try and find an egg - IF there is one - and IF there is they have survived they have to now burrow through the coating of the egg!
So bascially in a nut shell you chances of being pregnat are about 1 in a million! As in each ejaculate there are 1million sperm!! And those are pretty good odds! So relax OK? The Depo shot has been known to actually stop your periods, so this is probably what has gone on with you! Also remember the Depo shot is only as effective as birth control pills you can STILL get pregnant on it! So have your boyfriend use a condom and even get him to ejaculate into the condom!
1. The sperm survived on his fingers - which would have already been weakend somewhat by air and being rubbed off!
2. Any sperm would then have to swim up your vaginal wall - where there is natural secretions thats main goal is to stop invaders.
3. Then whatever sperm made it through that MAJOR event, have to go through the mother of all barriers - the Cervical canal which is coated in a thick jelly like substance!
4. THEN they have to swim through teh abyss of the uterus and try and find an egg - IF there is one - and IF there is they have survived they have to now burrow through the coating of the egg!
So bascially in a nut shell you chances of being pregnat are about 1 in a million! As in each ejaculate there are 1million sperm!! And those are pretty good odds! So relax OK? The Depo shot has been known to actually stop your periods, so this is probably what has gone on with you! Also remember the Depo shot is only as effective as birth control pills you can STILL get pregnant on it! So have your boyfriend use a condom and even get him to ejaculate into the condom!
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okay thank you soooo much! that took some weight off my shoulders=) but i did gain weight??? could i gain weight from stress?? and me and him use condoms its just that night we couldnt have sex so he fingered me....
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