Wow talking about the hard stuff. :-)
Well bbfeet you are as strong as ever. Keep it this way and the fight is yours.
Well bbfeet you are as strong as ever. Keep it this way and the fight is yours.
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It's funny because i promised myself that i wouldn't get cocky thru this as this whole thing could blow up in my face, but the more i learn the madder i get >;)
Now i find out that he has his b**** over to the house, OMG, i am furious.
But now i have to sit back and breath for a minute as i have no right to get mad because he has his X wife in MY house. You would think that between the two of them they could put their morals and ethics together and wait to do that. It's bad enough that he goes to her place, but now she sashays her funky self into my house.
I think that falls under the heading of Adultry as we are still married. My lawyer told me to either wait to start seeing anyone, which by the way is the furthest from my mind right now, or be totally discreet should i decide to hang out with another guy.
I can just see her walking thru my house, touching my stuff, cooking on my new stove or drying her cloths in my new dryer, omg this just sets my teeth on edge. Breath, breath, breath, she is probably petting my cat, i hope kitty scratches her eyeballs out, meow >;)
Now i find out that he has his b**** over to the house, OMG, i am furious.
But now i have to sit back and breath for a minute as i have no right to get mad because he has his X wife in MY house. You would think that between the two of them they could put their morals and ethics together and wait to do that. It's bad enough that he goes to her place, but now she sashays her funky self into my house.
I think that falls under the heading of Adultry as we are still married. My lawyer told me to either wait to start seeing anyone, which by the way is the furthest from my mind right now, or be totally discreet should i decide to hang out with another guy.
I can just see her walking thru my house, touching my stuff, cooking on my new stove or drying her cloths in my new dryer, omg this just sets my teeth on edge. Breath, breath, breath, she is probably petting my cat, i hope kitty scratches her eyeballs out, meow >;)
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BB do they allow links on small talk?
This is on the first page of funpic this morning.
http://www.funpic.hu/en.picview.php?id=37064&c=-1&s=dd&p=1
It seems kind of apporpriate.
You can find it if you Google funpic. It's the one with the pink wedding cake.
This is on the first page of funpic this morning.
http://www.funpic.hu/en.picview.php?id=37064&c=-1&s=dd&p=1
It seems kind of apporpriate.
You can find it if you Google funpic. It's the one with the pink wedding cake.
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Relax, bb! It's just things. So she's touching your dryer and walking through your house, who cares? You'll probably sell it all anyway if you get it in the settlement anyway and look for a better house anyway! I'm sorry that you're having a tough time right now though. How are you doing otherwise?
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I'm ok healthnfitnessguy, but i'm tired. My brain is tired. I'm a little scared. I think it's the fear of the unknown. The lawyers are draggin their feet, cuz they can i guess. That fat b*****d sits back on all of his money and doesn't even have a decent bone in his body to ask if we have food in the house. He can pay his b*****s way, but he can't consider that i may be struggling here. My fam and friends are wonderful and they see to it that i am okay. The job market is fierce. I not only lost my marraige and my home but i lost my job. I can not collect unemployment because i worked for him, under the table so to speak :$
So as i struggle thru each day, i know tomorrow will be just a tad bit better, not by much tho. I am loosing my motivation as i think this whole thing has come around and slapped me into reality.
I just need to re group and carry on. I am by nature a seriously strong and independent women, she is in there but she is beat, for now.
So as i struggle thru each day, i know tomorrow will be just a tad bit better, not by much tho. I am loosing my motivation as i think this whole thing has come around and slapped me into reality.
I just need to re group and carry on. I am by nature a seriously strong and independent women, she is in there but she is beat, for now.
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Sounds like we need to cheer you up, BB.
How'd you like a ride in a little rail car? :-) :-) :-)
Put up a picture of your real feet and I'll print it out and take it with me next week. :-P
How'd you like a ride in a little rail car? :-) :-) :-)
Put up a picture of your real feet and I'll print it out and take it with me next week. :-P
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Hey BB, I just read a recent post to an old topic about tatoos that says I have to ask this question.
Have you got your "PH" burned off yet? Owwww o.O
Have you got your "PH" burned off yet? Owwww o.O
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Hey njoynlife, it's so funny you posted that XD XD as i was looking at that damn tat just last night and trying to figure out what to do with it.
In my head i can make it stand for something else, like pot hole, or purple hen, idk, i got nothin %-)
To get it lasered off would mean buku bucks, something i am slightly short on at this point. The "PH" sits directly inside of a heart so i may decide to get the heart colored in to cover the initials. I thought of doing that, then having like a vine of some sort wrapping around the heart. I thought of the vine being my kids and grandkids initials, J J J J G A B C C or i was going to have a tribal on my wrist which symbolizes by daughters clean date which was June 15, 2008 and i was going to add ZZZZZ's to it, meaning i finally was able to sleep in peace. May b i'll have that as the vine around the heart. Any suggestions???
In my head i can make it stand for something else, like pot hole, or purple hen, idk, i got nothin %-)
To get it lasered off would mean buku bucks, something i am slightly short on at this point. The "PH" sits directly inside of a heart so i may decide to get the heart colored in to cover the initials. I thought of doing that, then having like a vine of some sort wrapping around the heart. I thought of the vine being my kids and grandkids initials, J J J J G A B C C or i was going to have a tribal on my wrist which symbolizes by daughters clean date which was June 15, 2008 and i was going to add ZZZZZ's to it, meaning i finally was able to sleep in peace. May b i'll have that as the vine around the heart. Any suggestions???
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:-| :-| :-| :-| :-| hey dark_red, i like it, and ya know what? I am pretty hot, damn it ;-) (STILL)
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ya know, when you think it couldn't get worse.....hello!!
Slime ball and his new slime ball ette are taking a vacation together o.O Isn't that special? The only place we ever went together was to Florida to visit his mom and that was 9 years ago!! Any vacations i ever took i took alone as he claimed he just couldn't leave the business. Right!
He's also got the young chik still on the hook as well, i wonder if his ol lady knows about her? Maybe they are having a threesome, he always wanted to do that. Sorry, you gotta be a certain kind of person to engadge in stuff like that, i'm not that kind of person.
I can see it now, your honor sir, i want a divorce on the grounds that my wife would not allow a third party into our marital bed, i just hope the judge isn't kinky too.
So here i sit and wait for the lovely lawyers to DO SOMETHING!!!! I was able to pay some bills for this month, so i'm all good there, but a new month is around the corner. I have checked and double checked on all my apps. for jobs...nothin yet %-) He sits back and racks in the $$$$, planning vacations, paying for his b****h, doing what ever he pleases and i sit here and fume. >;) >;)
I heard thru the grapevine that he would toss me $50 bucks if i came over and performed oral sex for him, but that is exactly NOT the way he said it, i'm being lady like 8-| He said it like a creepy dirty ol man would. AAARRRGGGHHHH.
Patience is not one of my strong suits, but i have been learning to practice it. I figure if you wait long enough you will get your just reward, hmmmm. I have not called him or tried to get in touch with him in any way at all. I don't even feel him in my heart any more. The real person is coming out of him, i have met him before and he is not nice.
Slime ball and his new slime ball ette are taking a vacation together o.O Isn't that special? The only place we ever went together was to Florida to visit his mom and that was 9 years ago!! Any vacations i ever took i took alone as he claimed he just couldn't leave the business. Right!
He's also got the young chik still on the hook as well, i wonder if his ol lady knows about her? Maybe they are having a threesome, he always wanted to do that. Sorry, you gotta be a certain kind of person to engadge in stuff like that, i'm not that kind of person.
I can see it now, your honor sir, i want a divorce on the grounds that my wife would not allow a third party into our marital bed, i just hope the judge isn't kinky too.
So here i sit and wait for the lovely lawyers to DO SOMETHING!!!! I was able to pay some bills for this month, so i'm all good there, but a new month is around the corner. I have checked and double checked on all my apps. for jobs...nothin yet %-) He sits back and racks in the $$$$, planning vacations, paying for his b****h, doing what ever he pleases and i sit here and fume. >;) >;)
I heard thru the grapevine that he would toss me $50 bucks if i came over and performed oral sex for him, but that is exactly NOT the way he said it, i'm being lady like 8-| He said it like a creepy dirty ol man would. AAARRRGGGHHHH.
Patience is not one of my strong suits, but i have been learning to practice it. I figure if you wait long enough you will get your just reward, hmmmm. I have not called him or tried to get in touch with him in any way at all. I don't even feel him in my heart any more. The real person is coming out of him, i have met him before and he is not nice.
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Hey Beeb, you know he's doing that just to get to you. Don't let it.
I think you're living too close to him. If you can't see what he's doing, it won't bother you.
If he knew you wouldn't see it, I bet he wouldn't be doing it. Just think of what it's costing him, and it's your fault he's spending all that money. You should be proud of yourself.
About that threesom. That's a fine fantasy for sex films I guess but I can't imagine myself attempting to satisfy TWO girls at once. It takes all my concentration to satisfy one. The reality is, to do that requires no emotional bond between any of the participants. If he seriously wanted to do that while you were together, I think you made the right decision.
Here's a little country song to cheer you up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqryx0GW-G4
Sorry, I couldn't find it by Paulette Carlson.
Telling someone he'd give you $50 for a bj. That's high school c**p, he hasn't grown up yet. He sounds like a jilted teenage lover. 8-|
I think you really got to him. You kicked him right in his ego.:-S
So hold your head high, you're doing fine.
He's suffering.
I think you're living too close to him. If you can't see what he's doing, it won't bother you.
If he knew you wouldn't see it, I bet he wouldn't be doing it. Just think of what it's costing him, and it's your fault he's spending all that money. You should be proud of yourself.
About that threesom. That's a fine fantasy for sex films I guess but I can't imagine myself attempting to satisfy TWO girls at once. It takes all my concentration to satisfy one. The reality is, to do that requires no emotional bond between any of the participants. If he seriously wanted to do that while you were together, I think you made the right decision.
Here's a little country song to cheer you up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqryx0GW-G4
Sorry, I couldn't find it by Paulette Carlson.
Telling someone he'd give you $50 for a bj. That's high school c**p, he hasn't grown up yet. He sounds like a jilted teenage lover. 8-|
I think you really got to him. You kicked him right in his ego.:-S
So hold your head high, you're doing fine.
He's suffering.
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Funny thing, i am on the other side of town, not even in the same county. Of course our counties are only a few miles apart from each other, but i am a good 20 minutes from him.
It seems like he has entered into his second childhood, next i'll see him riding around town in a red rag top vet. He is pathetic to me and all i feel is disgust. That grapevine is running wild over here and you know, it's natural for someone to want to run to you with dirt and of course my ears perk right up. I can only hope that these women milk him for all he is worth then drop him on his ass like a hot potatoe, money speaks louder than words in a situation like this.
I just want what i have coming to me, that's all.
You are a nice man njoynlife and thank you for your uplifting and wise words.
It seems like he has entered into his second childhood, next i'll see him riding around town in a red rag top vet. He is pathetic to me and all i feel is disgust. That grapevine is running wild over here and you know, it's natural for someone to want to run to you with dirt and of course my ears perk right up. I can only hope that these women milk him for all he is worth then drop him on his ass like a hot potatoe, money speaks louder than words in a situation like this.
I just want what i have coming to me, that's all.
You are a nice man njoynlife and thank you for your uplifting and wise words.
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