Bleeding can happen because of the hymen, even after the first time. Not all women's hymens break, and my doctor even told me that some women will have completely intact hymens even after they're pregnant.
This happened to me, I'm going for a pregnancy test at the lab in a few days. I'm looking around trying to find out what my chances are, hoping I'll just tire myself out and go to sleep. Both my boyfriend and I are a little freaked out, even if the chances are really low. It would suck to get pregnant without the hot night of sex before it :-P
To all people in this situation: do not freak out. We'll end up giving ourselves the symptoms, along with high blood pressure and lack of sleep. Not good. Remember that there's a reason that there are millions of sperm in one ejaculation. The chances of the few that would be on his finger reaching your egg are very very slim. Next time, get him to finger you first. That's what I'm gunna do *grin*.
I'm telling myself this as well as anyone who's reading this. Remain clam! ...I mean calm.
This happened to me, I'm going for a pregnancy test at the lab in a few days. I'm looking around trying to find out what my chances are, hoping I'll just tire myself out and go to sleep. Both my boyfriend and I are a little freaked out, even if the chances are really low. It would suck to get pregnant without the hot night of sex before it :-P
To all people in this situation: do not freak out. We'll end up giving ourselves the symptoms, along with high blood pressure and lack of sleep. Not good. Remember that there's a reason that there are millions of sperm in one ejaculation. The chances of the few that would be on his finger reaching your egg are very very slim. Next time, get him to finger you first. That's what I'm gunna do *grin*.
I'm telling myself this as well as anyone who's reading this. Remain clam! ...I mean calm.
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Hey hun,
im sure your fine!!! chances are there but very slim!
I used to freak out every month that i was preg after i got fingered
but if you think about it... so many people have unprotected sex and they dont get preg. im sure a finger will not get you preg!
And for the bleeding... he could be going to hard, my ex once made me bleed for two days so tell him to go not so hard. Just relax because stress will make you late.
Also i had a friend get preg because she used no method of birth control... stupid idea but any who. You do not get preg symptoms untill 2 months so try and relax. Also her mom is a nurse so its a legit source.
Get on the pill that will make you relax you also dont need parental permission for that! Best of luck babe!
im sure your fine!!! chances are there but very slim!
I used to freak out every month that i was preg after i got fingered
but if you think about it... so many people have unprotected sex and they dont get preg. im sure a finger will not get you preg!
And for the bleeding... he could be going to hard, my ex once made me bleed for two days so tell him to go not so hard. Just relax because stress will make you late.
Also i had a friend get preg because she used no method of birth control... stupid idea but any who. You do not get preg symptoms untill 2 months so try and relax. Also her mom is a nurse so its a legit source.
Get on the pill that will make you relax you also dont need parental permission for that! Best of luck babe!
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Iam 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I few weeks ago he masturbated himself but didn't come, then fingered me, but his hands were damp as he was wet, (but not cumed) it was about 10 minutes afterward, could i be pregnant? Or am i completely over reacting.
Help please.
Thanks :-)
Help please.
Thanks :-)
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Thank goodness... reading these i feel calm now. Im late and my boyfriend has fingered me but reading these have helped as he masturbated before doing it but he washed his hands so thank goodness.
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my boyfriend fingered me about 4 weeks ago. He swears up and down he did not cum, although he had his hand down his pants before he had it down mine. he did wipe his hand on my shorts, and it was a good 30 seconds before he fingered me after he pulled his hand out of his pants.
Right now, i feel sick almost every night, usually not until i start worrying though. I have cramps like i am going to get my period, and my face broke out as usual, although it has not come yet. Is it because im just worrying so much? or is it because im pregnant? i couldnt sleep for a week because im so scared!
Right now, i feel sick almost every night, usually not until i start worrying though. I have cramps like i am going to get my period, and my face broke out as usual, although it has not come yet. Is it because im just worrying so much? or is it because im pregnant? i couldnt sleep for a week because im so scared!
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Same thing happened to me - will write soon what turns out. This forum helped alot, thanks.
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About the same thing happened to me but i got my Dec. period a week after my boyfriend and i fooled around and then i missed my Jan period and it's not time for my Feb one yet but i'm trying my best not to worry cus i'm really irregular and i've been sick a lot this past year and few months. If it doesn't come this next week i'm prolly going to freak out so please help me!
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This is extremely stressful for me.
Today is Friday, and last Saturday me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he fingered me. He did it really fast and really deep, which is not a good thing because it was my first time. A few hours after I started getting extreme lower abdominal pains and it felt like his fingers were still in there, although I was no longer with him. It's been 6 days now, and I'm very worried that I may be pregnant. He did not masturbate that whole day, and I'm pretty sure he didn't touch himself, but how can I be sure? He fingered me four times that one day, and I'm worried something went very wrong. My period hasn't come yet, and I'm a few days late already. My breasts are very tender, hurt when I touch them, and have grown in the past few days. I have slight cramps that only come when I move a certain way or poke my lower stomach. I have read a bunch of help sites, and I'm getting mixed answers saying I may or may not be able to get pregnant from getting fingered. I don't know what to do or who to tell. Does anyone know if this could be nothing? Or something else besides pregnancy? I'd really appreciate the help!!!!!!
:'(
This is extremely stressful for me.
Today is Friday, and last Saturday me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he fingered me. He did it really fast and really deep, which is not a good thing because it was my first time. A few hours after I started getting extreme lower abdominal pains and it felt like his fingers were still in there, although I was no longer with him. It's been 6 days now, and I'm very worried that I may be pregnant. He did not masturbate that whole day, and I'm pretty sure he didn't touch himself, but how can I be sure? He fingered me four times that one day, and I'm worried something went very wrong. My period hasn't come yet, and I'm a few days late already. My breasts are very tender, hurt when I touch them, and have grown in the past few days. I have slight cramps that only come when I move a certain way or poke my lower stomach. I have read a bunch of help sites, and I'm getting mixed answers saying I may or may not be able to get pregnant from getting fingered. I don't know what to do or who to tell. Does anyone know if this could be nothing? Or something else besides pregnancy? I'd really appreciate the help!!!!!!
:'(
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This is extremely stressful for me.
Today is Friday, and last Saturday me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he fingered me. He did it really fast and really deep, which is not a good thing because it was my first time. A few hours after I started getting extreme lower abdominal pains and it felt like his fingers were still in there, although I was no longer with him. It's been 6 days now, and I'm very worried that I may be pregnant. He did not masturbate that whole day, and I'm pretty sure he didn't touch himself, but how can I be sure? He fingered me four times that one day, and I'm worried something went very wrong. My period hasn't come yet, and I'm a few days late already. My breasts are very tender, hurt when I touch them, and have grown in the past few days. I have slight cramps that only come when I move a certain way or poke my lower stomach. I have read a bunch of help sites, and I'm getting mixed answers saying I may or may not be able to get pregnant from getting fingered. I don't know what to do or who to tell. Does anyone know if this could be nothing? Or something else besides pregnancy? I'd really appreciate the help!!!!!!
:'(
This is extremely stressful for me.
Today is Friday, and last Saturday me and my boyfriend were fooling around and he fingered me. He did it really fast and really deep, which is not a good thing because it was my first time. A few hours after I started getting extreme lower abdominal pains and it felt like his fingers were still in there, although I was no longer with him. It's been 6 days now, and I'm very worried that I may be pregnant. He did not masturbate that whole day, and I'm pretty sure he didn't touch himself, but how can I be sure? He fingered me four times that one day, and I'm worried something went very wrong. My period hasn't come yet, and I'm a few days late already. My breasts are very tender, hurt when I touch them, and have grown in the past few days. I have slight cramps that only come when I move a certain way or poke my lower stomach. I have read a bunch of help sites, and I'm getting mixed answers saying I may or may not be able to get pregnant from getting fingered. I don't know what to do or who to tell. Does anyone know if this could be nothing? Or something else besides pregnancy? I'd really appreciate the help!!!!!!
:'(
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i was wondering the same thing, my boyfriend fingered me about a week ago and idk if he got sperm on his hand or not.. but im really scared that it got into me and if its possible that i am pregnant. i fingered myself today and i started to bleed and it said that if it one of those signs of pregnancy.. it wasnt light bleeding though it was rather heavy and completely red like it was from a cut. is this a sympton of pregnancy?
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Okay so i was giving my bf a hand job over his basketball shorts, and i stopped halfway through. He touched the top of his pants where you could feel pre-cum, which was a little wet... and fingered me about a half an hour later... i got my period 2 days after and it started out normal, but only lasted a few days, and i started early..... could i be pregnant?
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hey everyone,
i just want you to know that i've been through the same thing.
although i didnt think there was anything on my boyfriends finger... i still worried myself to death. i was giving myself pregnancy symptoms and thinking about it constantly. i just had light bleeding after he fingered me and no period, i worried this was implantation bleeding, well no need to worry because it wasnt and i got my period next month. i just wanted to reassure you all because i know what you're going through.
well best of luck with everything :-)
i just want you to know that i've been through the same thing.
although i didnt think there was anything on my boyfriends finger... i still worried myself to death. i was giving myself pregnancy symptoms and thinking about it constantly. i just had light bleeding after he fingered me and no period, i worried this was implantation bleeding, well no need to worry because it wasnt and i got my period next month. i just wanted to reassure you all because i know what you're going through.
well best of luck with everything :-)
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hi :-)
i am going through a similar situation at the moment...my boyfreind fingered me and i was masterbating him with my hand. he stopped and i dont no what he did but im not sure if he touched himself and then he started again i dont no if he got any of his sperm on his fingers and then started to finger me again i dont no if this would make me pregnant. after about 9 or 10 days i had some bleeding which i thought could have been implantation bleeding but it was a dark brownish red colour and was heavy for about 2 or 3 days with big clots aswell but it was about 2 weeks early for my period, then i waited for my period to come the next month which did come but again came i think about 2 weeks or so early (normal periods last 28 days so i count mine as that) i dont no what to do, im not sure if im pregnant...i have been paranoid about this before a few years ago and i wasnt pregnant but im not sure if i am i've put on a big of weight and am feeling tiered and urinating more, but i have eaten and drank more recently and i have been up really early and been doing alot! im really scared and confused i dont no what to do i need some help i dont have anyone else to talk to about it...thankyou xx %-)
i am going through a similar situation at the moment...my boyfreind fingered me and i was masterbating him with my hand. he stopped and i dont no what he did but im not sure if he touched himself and then he started again i dont no if he got any of his sperm on his fingers and then started to finger me again i dont no if this would make me pregnant. after about 9 or 10 days i had some bleeding which i thought could have been implantation bleeding but it was a dark brownish red colour and was heavy for about 2 or 3 days with big clots aswell but it was about 2 weeks early for my period, then i waited for my period to come the next month which did come but again came i think about 2 weeks or so early (normal periods last 28 days so i count mine as that) i dont no what to do, im not sure if im pregnant...i have been paranoid about this before a few years ago and i wasnt pregnant but im not sure if i am i've put on a big of weight and am feeling tiered and urinating more, but i have eaten and drank more recently and i have been up really early and been doing alot! im really scared and confused i dont no what to do i need some help i dont have anyone else to talk to about it...thankyou xx %-)
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Well he could transfered some of his sperm on his finger, but he had to bee careful about this. Implantation bleeding usually last for day or two and it is not so have. And many times you might fell some cramping. But is you had your period that you probably are not pregnant. So i think that there is no need to worry. Have you tried taking a test?
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Hi...my boyfriend and i were masterbating each other and because he was feeling the need to cum first, i performed oral sex...i doubt he physically touched his penis, but he did cover his penis with a tissue and then cleaned it with the tissue.
We were in the car so didnt have facilities to wash his hands, but wiped his hands with the tissue and rubbed lotion into his hands after. He then fingered me.
Any chance of pregnancy?
We were in the car so didnt have facilities to wash his hands, but wiped his hands with the tissue and rubbed lotion into his hands after. He then fingered me.
Any chance of pregnancy?
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