Is rectal fisting harmful?

anal ass fisting is one of the common misconceptions of western neography. it generally complies to a small sect in which cum shots are traded for sustinance.

My girlfriend has been anally fisting me regularly now for about 2 weeks. Gotta say most amazing experience ever. The stuff about anal leakage is... well c**p! Sphincter muscles are very flexible and will tighten back up within a few minutes afterwards, you will only gape for about a minute or two afterwards. Oh and hint if it hurts then you are doing it wrong!

My girlfriend enjoys it when i anal fist her. When i first met her i started with 2 fingers then four fingers and worked my way up until i could get my fist into her. After 2 years being together i can now get both my hands in to her anus. It took us a  long time to get to that stage but she loves it and i must admit it is fun. It can get a bit messy at times, and we use one bottle of lube a week. I sometimes used to get funny looks when i went to Tesco to buy 4 bottles of lube at a time. I now buy them online to avoid the embarrassment. She does not enjoy anal sex as much as she does not get no satisfaction from it because she has lost some tightness. My advice is use plenty of lube and be carful, do it slowly. There have been times where she started to bleed from inside and had to stop. I agree with some of the comments above with regards to health risks, Who knows what permanent damage I have done to her anus.

so if you're not into fistin,what are you doing on a fistin dabate,???.

ps whoa cares what your arse looks like when you're 60..Have fun now before to to f....old!!!!!!!......xxx

I just did this last night and was amazed at how good it felt. I didnt put my whole hand in but like tried to and then got 4 fingers :). Im just looking around now to see if its natural because i dont wanna hurt myself lol, just wanna have fun. Im 17 and love to experience a lot of sexual things. I feel like im bisexual cuz im getting turned on by just thinking about doing this again 2night ;). Also i think about a guy doing this time while im doing it to myself. If anybody wants to get together i live in jersey and ill hit you up ;). But thanks for all the feeds about how this is perfectly alright and im def gonna keep on doing it ;).

What about hemorrhoids? What about fecal bits and stuff like that? Do people have to evacuate their bowels before they park a 3-hole Buick up their ass? How does all this stuff work? I've seen porn videos and wondered how they handle those details?

Best to have an enema before you start fisting. Plenty of lube as mentioned. Take it slow. If it hurts stop. But it's a normal and healthy part of human sexuality if done correctly.

Amen to the previous post! Enjoy it but be careful, one step at a time

I would like to put out there that if it is harmful might be a relative term in this case.  Will fisting once at 20 have you wearing diapers for the rest of your life?  Probably not. 

 

But there are things to consider...

 

For example, it's quite easy for me to tell if a woman (and I assume it would be for a man as well) has had anal sex or other anal experiences by just looking at her anus.  Physicians can also tell while giving you a digital anal exam.  Just a penis (or a few fingers) diameter will definitely change your anus and usually for life.  It definitely will cause you to fart more quietly and often more frequently.  Even if you are usually "continent", a looser anus can be an issue at water parks (welcome to the water slide enema) and hot springs or other pools where the water my have bacteria (that goes more easily into (and out of) your newly loosed anus if you happen to or can't help but fart).  You definitely can get sick like this.  Fisting may not cause you to be incontinent in your day to day activities, but it definitely may if you have a situation where you have to hold if for longer and tighter than usual.  Also, if can be a problem if you have diarrhea.  It's a lot harder to really clamp down post fisting and somewhat even post-anal.  When I say “post”, I mean even years after.  Also, as we know, many people become incontinent or more so as they age, I'm sure being a human mitten in your youth may help that along.  That said, some of the effects can be mitigated by doing anal exercises and laying off for a long time (think years).  Anal exercises do take time and effort so you may consider your level of commitment prior trying fisting out.  If you are happy with how your anus works now or may want to please someone else with it down the road you should take some consideration.  Anyone who tells you that it won't change anything is not being completely honest or can't remember what it was like before.

 

Consider size also. A 300lbs, 6'7" man will probably have an easier time being fisted by a 89lbs, 5'1" pixie than the other way around.  It will be easier (or more difficult) both because of the size of the man's anus and of the woman's fist (or vice-versa).  This is an extreme example, but again, the changes will be relative to some parameters I've already mentioned, I believe.  Frequency also seems to make a difference.  It’s hard to tell which is the more significant factor, but I would weigh more on size ratio being the most significant.

 

I do remember Dr. Drew (a physician who co-hosts a sex-talk radio show in Los Angeles) said that fisting and other kinds of extreme anal can cause a prolapsed anus requiring surgery.  He said he had treated people as such himself.  I'm not sure if people consider him reliable, but he is a physician.

 

So, this is if everything goes good.  Of course, for some people there is the issue of possible muscle tearing due to inexperience, over enthusiasm, etc. to consider as well.

 

Anyway, to sum up, if you want to know if fisting is harmful, you may want to look at what you mean by harmful, what you expect from your (or your partners) anus and what you may be willing to give up.

 

Good luck.

i took crayola markers and worked up to a lot of them.But dont go up the cap or u will lose the marker. have fun!!!!

Yes it will. Where can I meet you?

It is enjoyable. It was three years ago when my gf started teasing my ass. One night we were in the bath tub together and she sterted teasing my ass and she slipped one finger inside me. I was hard but I started driping. She asked me if I liked it and I could not lie so I said yeas, it feels different but feels nice. It really felt weird to say that I liked it. Slowly and over a two years period she kept working with my ass, after I had screwed her and I had orgasmed. She would ask me before we start to have an anal douche to be clean, very clean back there. She would do the same too. We have been having great sex and enjoyable. After the first orgasm from a misionary position, she would by now work my ass and she can slip the whole hand inside and it does not hurt me. She keeps her fist inside me and she sucks me to another orgasm. She is also pleased by me keep f*****g her after I orgasm. It takes me long time so she has one or two more orgasms before we hold each other and sleep all through the night.

How did you get to this question on the internet? You must be an anal fisting vigilante?

A certain amount of care and patience is required by both the fister and fistee. A clean rectum properly excavated, a good water based lubricant and plenty of time. Most rectal injuries occur when attempting to place too large an object in the rectal cavity too fast.

To be certain of doing this right. Allow for one to two months to stretch the sphincter muscle enough to accommodate a hand. It should be a slow gradual process of relaxing the sphincter muscle. It again takes time and patience. Watching too many videos and getting overly excited is okay, but remember, every journey begins with small steps.

I do enjoy the fact that you technically blasphemed and then suggest that people ask God for help in resisting the temptation of Anal Sex. Different strokes my friend, I believe that God put us here to experience, explore and enjoy, not fight against our own inquisitive nature, to box our mind into unquestioned acceptable/unacceptable. Live and let live, don't waste your precious time here on a self-important crusade dictating right/wrong to others. Irony anyone? Oh and take it slow, communicate, listen to your body and play safe. Enjoy.