Heyy,
im 14 years old, and me and my boyfriend often do things together, although we have not yet had sex. We are thinking about trying it sometime soon.
anyways, is it normal to be doing sexual things at this age?
is grade 8 a little too young?
thanks for all your guys helpp:):-):-)<33
im 14 years old, and me and my boyfriend often do things together, although we have not yet had sex. We are thinking about trying it sometime soon.
anyways, is it normal to be doing sexual things at this age?
is grade 8 a little too young?
thanks for all your guys helpp:):-):-)<33
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I don't think its to young.. I started in grade 8 myself..But, it depends on you. If you feel your ready then go for it (But be SAFE about it).
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Ms. Guest
ABOUT YOUR AGE;
Most will say you're too young and the others will say you waited too long...this is a tough question because the real answer is with you, but most girls in high school will have intercourse or a sexual relationship for their first time, ut Jr. High School is not a improper age so if you are at that time where a boy and you are together, I was 15 1/2 and she was just turned 15 when we had our 1st. sexual relationship and pregnant before 16 and you feel alright with him? It is him that you will have your 1st intercourse with, and it will be forever with him.
Now you say that you have not had sex with each other? does that mean no intercourse or any sexual contact? any sexual contact, means you are sexually active!!
Now Rule for Intercourse; some important ones
1) Have the proper time to enjoy both of yourselves,
2) Take your time, don’t rush and get it over with.
3) Proper place; weekend at a friends' place gone for the days or a summer house the beach sand or grassy woods are not the right place.
4) Be protected with a condom or two at least,
I do not wish for you have to tell your parents about you becoming pregnancy, at this age.
5) Have the nervousness taken care of; by mostly the other rule have been followed.
So you are ready to made this jump, then maybe it is also time to "go on the pill" and one other form birth control. for you to be protected from a pregnancy, See your family doctor, or a family planning clinic, and take him with you, so he learns more about birth control.
You are able to do this at your age, so get a girlfriend or that boyfriend into a planned parenthood clinic with you (or something similar) and get the information you needed and at least two forms birth controls- the pills and may be a diaphragm & jelly, ask what is the best for you.
RT
ABOUT YOUR AGE;
Most will say you're too young and the others will say you waited too long...this is a tough question because the real answer is with you, but most girls in high school will have intercourse or a sexual relationship for their first time, ut Jr. High School is not a improper age so if you are at that time where a boy and you are together, I was 15 1/2 and she was just turned 15 when we had our 1st. sexual relationship and pregnant before 16 and you feel alright with him? It is him that you will have your 1st intercourse with, and it will be forever with him.
Now you say that you have not had sex with each other? does that mean no intercourse or any sexual contact? any sexual contact, means you are sexually active!!
Now Rule for Intercourse; some important ones
1) Have the proper time to enjoy both of yourselves,
2) Take your time, don’t rush and get it over with.
3) Proper place; weekend at a friends' place gone for the days or a summer house the beach sand or grassy woods are not the right place.
4) Be protected with a condom or two at least,
I do not wish for you have to tell your parents about you becoming pregnancy, at this age.
5) Have the nervousness taken care of; by mostly the other rule have been followed.
So you are ready to made this jump, then maybe it is also time to "go on the pill" and one other form birth control. for you to be protected from a pregnancy, See your family doctor, or a family planning clinic, and take him with you, so he learns more about birth control.
You are able to do this at your age, so get a girlfriend or that boyfriend into a planned parenthood clinic with you (or something similar) and get the information you needed and at least two forms birth controls- the pills and may be a diaphragm & jelly, ask what is the best for you.
RT
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Sexual development at age 14 is normal.
Dating behavior is normal.
Intimate behavior is far more rare...
And when it crosses the line to full intercourse,
in my book, Yes, it's too soon.
Ask yourself this question.
If it was generally known that you were sexually active now, would you feel ashamed?
If the answer is Yes, or you can't own up to the behavior you are practicing, then it's too early.
At least, that's how I approach it.
Your situation or family values may be different.
Dating behavior is normal.
Intimate behavior is far more rare...
And when it crosses the line to full intercourse,
in my book, Yes, it's too soon.
Ask yourself this question.
If it was generally known that you were sexually active now, would you feel ashamed?
If the answer is Yes, or you can't own up to the behavior you are practicing, then it's too early.
At least, that's how I approach it.
Your situation or family values may be different.
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If you are prepared to raise a child than you are old enough. Most employers aren't willing to pay much more than minimum wage without at least a GED so I guess you'll both be working a lot of hours to get by.
Oh yea, you'll want to get some health insurance to cover all the medical expenses associated with raising children. Don't forget the life insurance in case one of you is involved in an accident and you have to raise the child by yourself.
Ask your parents if they'd be willing to raise your child for you so you can finish school. Someone with a driver's license will need to get the child to and from the doctor for regular check-ups and immunizations. Someone will have to go to the grocery store on a regular basis as well.
I think it MIGHT be a bad idea...
Oh yea, you'll want to get some health insurance to cover all the medical expenses associated with raising children. Don't forget the life insurance in case one of you is involved in an accident and you have to raise the child by yourself.
Ask your parents if they'd be willing to raise your child for you so you can finish school. Someone with a driver's license will need to get the child to and from the doctor for regular check-ups and immunizations. Someone will have to go to the grocery store on a regular basis as well.
I think it MIGHT be a bad idea...
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